Think about how you are and why you are the way you are,most of the time it's due to your roots how you were raised, how relationships around you were, who your role models were. Being a parent isn't easy I always joke which one of my kids will end up in therapy. But reality is we are shaping,molding, creating a lifestyle that our child will copy and mimic. That's a lot of pressure I know.
Being a kid isn't easy either. Fighting for freedom, wanting to explore the world, having people to answer to. Being bosses around.
I really try to keep my kids happy and loved and show them good values that they will hopefully carry along with them. But I am not perfect. This is a good reminder to do what you can to be what you wanted and needed when you were a child. Be that person and your kids will turn out just fine!