Peel back the layers. I wrote about this before: here
Digging deep isn’t pretty. I woke up this morning and said stop giving everyone this big ego trip. Focus on giving yourself one. Focus on those who make you feel beautiful and important too. And that hit me hard. I had to really process my relationships and friendships these last six months. I was so grateful for everyone who has been amazing to me.
Last night at dinner my girlfriend said you’re so easy going and fun and not judgemental and it hit me
She’s right. To each it’s own. But I also felt I had to start appreciating those who do make me feel special and those who don’t should not get so much of my focus.
We all have work to do on ourselves. First is opening up the truths and letting the fantasy go. Second is taking actions to make changes. Third is accepting what is and learning from it. Fourth don’t force things. Destiny works it’s own magic. Fifth if someone doesn’t see your full potential don’t convince them. They aren’t your people and move on. Sixth everyone has something to teach you. Learn from them but don’t hold on too long for people who needs to be released. Seventh love is good and bad and hard and easy and magical and work. There’s a balance but it’s waking up and going to bed everyday grateful for that person. If you don’t feel that then they aren’t your person. Eighth you are amazing and unique and special don’t ever think other wise. Don’t ever feel second best. You should be number one in the right person’s eye. If you’re not they aren’t your person. Ninth make your heart and soul happy. Appreciate little things in life. Tenth don’t ever change for someone unless you want to make that change. Final love is so special and rare. Have no regrets. I am grateful for everyone I once loved. I will always love them even long after our relationships has ended because at one time or another I needed them and they needed me.
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