It’s Ok To Detach

It’s ok to come to terms that some people can’t give you what you want and need. It doesn’t mean you’re  upset or mad. It just means you have to learn to accept and move forward. You have to grow and learn these lessons. 

You keep seeing things about a year ago and this year and about making 2020 a better year. That’s all great and true but it you carry the same pain or fear or hurt in your heart you’ll never move past it. You’ll never allow something more to come in. 

I too didn’t expect my year to be the way it was. A lot of great amazing things but a lot of unnecessary drama and confusion and heartache. It just made me realize that holding on to people who aren’t going to give you more is just preventing someone else to come in who does want to.  

When your brain is calm you reflect. You replay situations and conversations in your head. The ones that hurt you let it hurt and release it. Don’t repeat them. I did. I repeated my own pain for months and months thinking a different outcome. So pathetic. I even was reminded of it. Some say a waste of time but reality I grew from it. My soul came out to the surface. I reconnected within. It still bothers me a lot and pain will be there but I can’t keep replaying past situations when outcome is the same every time. 

Detach. Love yourself. Grow. Heal. Move on. The past is the past. Stop carrying it with you. You can’t grow like that. You keep hurting your own self when you do hold on to something that is long gone. 

Let it go. Allow new love and energy and people and fun and hope and joy into your life. Start today. ❤️