Sunday, June 16, 2019

Sometimes The Right Words Just Click...



“If you saw you from my eyes you’d never settle again!” My girlfriend said this to me and it sat with me. I then told her if she was a dude I would date her. But all jokes aside many times did you take more than you deserved. Did you settle for comfort. Did you take a step back because you felt you didn’t deserve more. Did you avoid growth in fear of failure. 

Don’t! No more!

Feel Good Song: Kitchen Sink



This song gets me every time I hear it. 

Bugsy's Dueling Piano Speakeasy in Hamden CT




I finally made it here and I will totally be going back. It’s so much fun! My best friend was home and we planned a girls night. At first we were going to do the typical night out in Sono and I said hey I been really wanting to do to this piano bar. Of course she’s like let’s go. 

Cover was $10 a person.  We didn’t make reservations but our seats were awesome. Right in front. They give you a sheet where you request songs for them to play. Everyone is dancing and singing alone. You can throw money on the pianos to stop them singing a song and move to the next one requested. Honestly it felt like we were crashing someone’s party. The energy in the room was amazing. Everyone was having a great time. 


So many people there for their birthday. They call the Birthday person down and they sit on the piano and sing to you. It’s such a fun atmosphere. We ordered a margarita pizza that had pesto. It was delicious. 

We met a cute older couple next to us that were celebrating her birthday. She shared her champagne and birthday cake with us. She even tried to set me up with her single son who wasn’t there. Funny I know. 

I love checking out new places. I left with a happy heart. Just to experience different things and it’s not even expensive. Loved to check this place off my bucket list. 


Great vibe. Great atmosphere. Just a happy, feel
good place.Can’t wait to go back!



















Are You Happy For You or Those Around You?

I asked a friend this. They responded “good question”. 

See we tend to think if we do what others want us to do we will be happy. Not ok.  We can’t sacrifice our happiness to please others. Now being selfish and selfless are two different things. They give you two different results in life. One makes you content with some guilt.  Other makes others content at the cost of something on your end. 

We all have made some selfish decisions in our life. I get it and being concerned with others is always important. But at what cost to your own happiness and fulfillment of life. What are you willing to let go of to make others happy? What have you let go of to make
others happy? What hurt did you cause yourself?

I found this article it’s really fascinating and on point. Take the time to really read it and begin your true quest to being happy. 

25 Things You Should Give Up If You Want To Be Happy

Take a Time Out...Do The Things That Bring You Joy


What’s this settling in life business? You never settle. ever! 💜

Happy Father's Day To All The Men In Your Life & Mine


Men at times are under appreciated...I know I know women do not get mad, let's admit it. We all know men need guidance, a woman's love, help with daily tasks and need a woman's touch. Men live for danger and adventure. They get bored easily, like to be the protector. Men need to be desired, yet not smothered or mothered. Men thrive on feeling like a king and if you treat them like so they will treat you like a Queen. All jokes aside a good man isn't hard to find. A unwounded man is. Let's raise them to be good people. Let's appreciate the good men who are good father's to our kids. Let's appreciate what men do for us. They aren't like women, they are unique, sensual, creatures. 

Enjoy the men in your life and appreciate the Father's in your life; your husbands, brothers, fathers, cousins, ex husbands whomever.

Happy Father's Day to them all!