Being Attracted To Their Soul


Have you ever met someone that you could see straight to their core? Straight to their soul? It’s a rare yet beautiful and sexy thing. 

All connections should be like this. Why else would you be with somebody if you can only connect on the surface. 

Why would you spend the next 10,20,30 or 40 years with someone who doesn’t make your soul happy. Find someone who helps you feel again. Where your inner child can come out. A safe place. You deserve that. 

Stop...Don’t Settle For Less


Put it to an end. All of us. We don’t deserve anything but the best because who would settle for less. I saw a trend. Falling for guys who weren’t emotionally available. What was I thinking? 

You, I, we, need to realize how much we have overcome in life. How strong we are. If someone isn’t honoring our highest good and well being well then it’s time to move on. 

You deserve the best. Don’t settle for less!

Final Week of Retrograde



I feel like 2019 has been one big retrograde but all jokes aside how many of you are impacted by this? At times I am which is humorous and a bit scary too. 

West Side Reggae Festival July 27th



I LOVE Reggae Music! This festival is taking place on Saturday in Danbury. 

Stop Fighting It...


We all fight where we want to be. Our heart. Our mind. Stop. Enjoy it. Don’t force it but if you wake up and fall asleep thinking about it. Well what else do you need to know. ❤️





Connect Within


This is really important. I have mentioned in past when chaos is around you there is a lot of distractions. When your mind is still you can really tune into what you want. How to fix or get out of situations that do not serve you well. It also helps you be intuitive. I have a couple people in my life I can pick up on their vibe when we are not together and there’s people who can pick up on mine. It’s pretty insane and on point. 


When your mind is relaxed it can hurt to dig up what’s bothering you. It’s ok. Feel it. But then fix it. 

I can tell you now people I am in tune with have termoil within. Avoiding the outcome they should make. Are internalizing their feelings to protect themselves. Fix it before you snap. Fix it for you. Peace and happiness always follow. I promise. 

I saw a girlfriend the other day. She looked amazing. Her core was at peace. It’s my hair she said. No it’s not I said. You are glowing. You’re at peace within and it shows so everything about you looks amazing. 

Stop looking for a distraction. Silent your mind for the answers. Listen to what your intuition is telling you. Even if they aren’t the answers you want to hear you must accept them and apply them. 

Take Me Away...


“But you’ve been away” yeah it’s true. I have had some awesome trips this last year for work where I extended some days to have fun but it’s not the same. This trip is a mindless trip. 

I was cleaning out my trunk this morning for tomorrow’s road trip and this sand clip took me back. To the waves and calmness to the naps and late night sipping on wine on the deck while we play board games all night. Early walks to the beach followed by day shopping. 

The laughs. Oh the stories. This group is a good group. We are four gals who are simple yet adventurous and can party or hang. Whichever mood we are in. 

Cape Cod has always been like a second home. I have been going almost every year for the last 20 years. A goal of mine to get my own beach house one day. It’s a quiet little town with amazing seafood. Awesome beaches and bays and a ton of shopping opportunities. Night life of live music and karaoke. 

I can hardly wait. 

We pack up my mini van and take off. Even the car ride itself is comical. Blasting music. Telling our lastest life stories. Some serious. Some hit home. Some make us laugh until our stomachs hurt. 

Yep. That type of getaway. 

We always stop in Mystic on the way back. Eat at our favorite restaurant order our favorite bottle of wine. Maybe kayak the Mystic River if we have time. It helps us not be sad that our Cape Cod trip is over. 

The little things in life. The chill J comes out. Relaxed. Creative. It helps my brain organize and tap into some goals. 

Where’s your favorite escape?

Finding The Love You Deserve



And I hope you, me, we all, find it.