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Thursday, October 3, 2019
It’s Ok To Start Over Until You Get It Right
Like probably the 100th. Sounds so silly. It does. But it was. The 100th time I said to myself let it go. Just let it go
Re-focus your life on what’s important and who is worth your time. Everyone plays a role right. But you decide which one. If they want to decide and you don’t agree then let them go.
Re-set your beliefs. How things should be verse how they are. Peace and happiness and good core values are the main goal. When you’re not aligned you’re off.
Re-start as many times as you need until you get it right. It may take months or years or a day. Just do it. Until you’re fully happy.
Look At Everything In A Positive Way
I’ve had the time of my life...and it came at costs of some really bad crappy times. I won’t lie. It was. But the outcome far exceeds the bad and everyday is a step in even a better one. No room for drama or pain or hate or fighting or miscommunication. Only surround yourself with people who value your presence. Not flaw you or cause chaos or uncertainty. Life’s too short for games and chaos. Embrace how far you’ve come.
Your Healing Is Your Responsibility
Don’t take it out on anyone else. Your healing is your responsibility.
You Go Girl...
Of course we all want someone to take care of us. I had a friend who was sick and it was so foreign to me when someone suggested to bring him medicine. I was like um isn’t that what companions do? Don’t we help eachother. Lookout for eachother. Now there are situations where someone is the giver and someone is the taker. There has to be a balance. A give and take situation.
Now when you’re alone. You take care of you. You don’t depend on anyone. Yes it’s nice when someone suggests to help you but you’re alone. You figure stuff out alone and well it’s empowering. It builds you’re character.
I met a ton of people who says wow you’re different. You’re a cool girl who gets it. I get it because I have been through a lot. I have faced a lot and seen a lot and now just try to keep things real.
We all have the survival in us. To be able to be alone and depend on ourselves for happiness. For gratification. For self love.
No one wants to be alone forever but in the mean time it’s pretty powerful doing things for yourself and be whole while single. Anyone else is just an addition. I don’t want to need someone. I want to want someone. There’s a difference.
Halloween Fun At Stew Leonard’s In Norwalk
Haunted hayride, Halloween Movie Night, Halloween breakfast fun. So much to do at Stew Leonard’s in Norwalk.
Stews 2017
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Stews 2017
Sorry But Not Sorry Cause It Is How Life Is
In every situation someone gets hurt. Right. So we have all done it. Not intentionally but when it’s you. When you’re hurting you have a couple of choices.
This is your only control. What to do with your life going forward.
It was a wave. Up and down. Then a song came on. Was so weird. I started to relive all the emotions. I had to change it. Then another song came on and it hit another wound. Then another.
It’s like I couldn’t escape it. I then listened. To all the songs. All the wounds opened. Every emotion. Then something magical happened. They didn’t hurt anymore.
See we have the only one power. It’s our emotions. Within us. How we feel. How we react. I never wanted to relive those wounds. Doubt. Words. Drama. Pathetic. Loving something not worth loving.
I have too many times in my life.
Bye to that.
Say sorry to yourself and pick yourself up. Every word said was replayed in my head. Like flashbacks. Every emotion. Every person who impacted my heart. Every pathetic plea I ever made. Every word I accepted that I didn’t deserve.
I apologized to myself, to my heart and deleted that Pandora station from my list.
Feel Good Song: Lean On Me
I was 13-15 years old. A group of five of us girls used to always hang out. I mean we spent everyday together. Summer we alternated whose house to sleep over. This song was “our song”. I know sounds silly but remember that age. Where life is “hard” yeah if we only knew then what we know now. But really was a shaping point in my life.
This song came on this morning as I am bringing all my girls to school the first time this week. My oldest is in the front seat next to me. I am singing my lungs out to this. She looks at me like I am crazy. It’s perfect. I am such a person to push her buttons just to get a grin out of her. She asks me to turn it off and to stop singing but I don’t. I drop her off and while I am driving to the other school my youngest says. Hey mom turn it up, I actually like this song.
My girl.
It’s funny how music hits us. How one song brings a flood of emotions and memories. It actually put me in a great mood. The crazy stories. The journey. Being young and thinking we are so powerful and nothing can harm us or hurt us. The courage we had verse now. Amazing.
