Monday, December 16, 2019

Live in the Present


This actual moment is what should matter the most to you. Not the past. Not the future. This real time moment. 

We tend to act based on past issues or feelings. If we were in a current, present, moment. Things would be much more different. We would act and react differently. This current. Present moment. Is your life. 

What Melts Your Heart?


We all agree when men are with their kids and are good dads it’s extremely attractive. I was with a friend and he said he was going to drop off ornaments he made over weekend with his daughter and her friend. I swear my heart just melted. I couldn’t believe it. Sounds silly but how many men do crafts with their kids? Normally it’s moms. He laughed but I said that was absolutely adorable. 

One thing my ex was great at was decorating for holidays or taking kids to see lights. I always loved when men let their kid out in them too. Not acted like a kid there’s a difference. Let’s give men credit when credit is due. Let’s also know that men in our lives can do little things that melt our hearts even if it’s not something they are doing for us. Be sure to compliment them. Who doesn’t appreciate a good compliment? What melts your heart?



Choose Happiness...Choose You



I wish 2020 brings you everything 2019 didn’t I said to someone today. 

Think about it. What didn’t you get. What did 2019 teach you? What situations did you learn from. I will tell you I wouldn’t repeat this year. I learned. I grew. I experienced but I know better now. I know what’s for me and what’s not. I learned being alone is always a lot better than settling. I learned a lot of people don’t believe pure love and happiness is real and that makes me sad. That people think all good things have to come to an end when they don’t. What has to happen is decisions have to be made. When you want something in life you have to give up something for it. 

Choose happiness. Choose you. Everything else is a bonus.