Communicate To Fully Comprehend

We don’t have to agree. I want to start my post by saying that. We just need to understand. Validate. 

If someone is upset or off or angry there’s a reason. We may not agree. We just want to be heard. 

A lot of relationships lack communication. Forget about comprehension. They don’t understand why someone is the way they are. They don’t understand why people see situations a certain way. 

Overtime I changed. I tried to put myself in someone else’s shoes. I tried to understand that not all children or men or people are the same. We aren’t. We are all different and communicate differently and love differently and need things differently. We argue differently. 

Homeschool taught me that my three kids learn differently. They can’t be taught the same way. 

Dating has taught me that men communicate differently. Every single one. They love differently. They react differently. They argue differently. Not one is the same. 

Life has taught me that we need to comprehend and understand how someone operates. How they think. Feel. Love. How they handle problems and situations. 

Once you do it’s so much easier when dealing with them. We can’t generalize that all women are the same or men or kids. We aren’t. Individually we all need and act and love and learn differently. 

If you love someone instead of trying to change them try to take the time to understand them. I am still learning everyday.