One thing I realize is you have to ask for what you want and need and that’s totally ok. People don’t read minds. When I met the guy I am dating I told him some things I wanted and he actually listened. He has been doing them ever since. Why? Because I took the time to tell him what makes me happy.
It’s ok to tell people what you need and want. What’s not ok is expecting them to understand without helping them realize what you need. It’s that simple.
Set your boundaries. List your expectations. Tell them things that will make you happy. How else do you expect to get what you want and need?
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