Mommy CT: 01/20/20

Monday, January 20, 2020

Change is Uncomfortable...Deal With It

I remember when I first had my cancer treatment I would perform reiki on my family while they slept. I felt I was reborn again. Weird I know.

Life then didn’t turn out how I wanted. I had to make some big changes fast. My youngest was 2 at this point. I still can’t believe it. I had three little ones.

I wasn’t happy. Things were spiraling out of control and I got this big powerful urge to stand my ground.

I took control over my life again. Everything had to change inorder for the to happen.

Was it hard as hell. Um yep.

Could I perform reiki. Nope. Mind has to be calm and you have to be at peace inorder to heal yourself and others. I am not a healer. I help people see potential in themselves. Transform their lives.

I make it clear that you’re going to have to get super uncomfortable to have change in your life. You have to start with owning your own flaws. Your own part.

Then the fun part. Changing. We hate changing because it’s not routine or comfortable.

Deal with it. It’s worth your growth. Trust me!

Be A Great Person...To Your Core

The other day I said this to a friend. I said I enjoy your company because you’re a really nice guy...down to your core.

It’s important to point it out to people.

My soul sister is the same way. She lights up the room where ever we go. It’s an amazing gift she has.

Be a great person. Truly. Legit. Down to your core.

The Simple Pleasures In Life

Nothing materialistic can buy my happiness....

We all do this. We immediately defend ourselves. How about we switch it around. How about we try to put ourselves in the other person’s shoes. Just maybe then you can have compassion instead of feeling you need to justify your actions.

We need to react to understand. Even if you’re right. Try to see their side. Try to understand how this person felt. How they may have misinterpreted your actions or words. Do this with your companions. Kids. Coworkers. Friends.

Yeah it takes patience but hey isn’t it worth it?

Choose Who You Battle With!

Regain Your Power

Medicine Humor

Never Fear Sticking Up For What You Believe In

Embrace Your Surroundings

Choose what you have in your area. Your shelves. Your walls. The noise you hear. The scents you smell. All contribute to your mood.

Be Good To Your Kids

Let them be children. Don’t let them hear adult problems and issues or stress. Let them live a carefree life, let them daydream and not have fear or worries.