Monday, February 10, 2020
Be Patient With Yourself
Beautiful and true. The process of becoming takes time. I will admit how I would handle things in the past is much different than I do now.
It’s a growing process. Be you. Believe in yourself. Small steps. Make changes. You will have setbacks. It’s ok. Keep learning. 💗
What’s Your Love Language?
Dancing. Trying new restaurants. Laughing. Being silly and real with eachother.
What’s your love language?
Setting Boundaries
When things don’t bother you...
I knew the minute I saw him out he would reach out to me. It’s predictable. I was with a group of friends and ran into a person I haven’t spoken to for a couple of weeks. I woke up today to a request from him he sent in the middle of the night.
He didn’t say anything when he saw me out but we made eye contact a couple of times and I knew it would mean I would be hearing from him. I knew his type already. There are types you know. Predictable types. That come in and out of you life. Test the waters. See if you let them back in.
He was with someone else. I laughed at his request and ignored it.
You set boundaries. The past me would allow him back in. The new me knows better.
You control who you allow in. Always remember that.
When Men & Women Are Wounded
Knowing the difference early on can help you adapt
to what someone needs. Who they are. How to handle them and understand them. The goal is to change those flaws.
Pay Attention: You Always Knew
I don’t think I was ever wrong. I knew the red flags from the beginning for everyone. Every single person.
What I did wrong was over look them.
Pay attention. You know right away and could avoid a lot of heartbreak and a waste of your time.