Tuesday, November 24, 2020
If You Knew Would You Walk Away
We always live as if things are forever so when they change it’s hard to cope with. What if you knew nothing was forever. That things would eventually change and go away. How would you handle it? Would you let it go? Would you never allow yourself to experience it because you know it would end?
I toy with this. A lot.
No one knows what tomorrow will be like. I never thought after 20 yrs I would get a divorce. Looking back I say I wouldn’t change it. It was part of my path but what if today I knew a relationship may not be forever. Would I avoid it all together or embrace it and be in the moment?
Because heartbreak is awful. Death. Job loss. Breakups. We all have had heartbreak is some form. Does it mean we let it go and not enjoy it before it even ends?
I don’t have that answer. I would say live in the moment because we know all things eventually come
to an end. I would say living is the middle. Not the beginning or ending but middle.
But when you know heartbreak is coming is it ok to stay on for the ride? I don’t know. I don’t know if temporary gratification is worth healing from. Do you?
