You can start again and again over and over. But own your role in your failures and in your part of something failing. Whether in a relationship or job or friendship wherever. Own your part.
It’s easy to blame others and yea maybe they are the difficult one but did you participate in it? Did it frustrate you so much that you lost your true self. It’s a tug of war constantly.
Did a relationship go stale? Why? Did you give up when they did. Did they do live up to your expectations? How could you have helped them. Think back to when it started being bad. What at that moment could you have done to change it? Sometimes it is nothing. Sometimes people change and we have to just accept that journey ended.
Were you not the correct fit for a job? What could you have done differently.
Why did a friendship part ways? Did you lose trust in them or they lost trust in you?
We all play a role. I know I give something my all, well I try, so when they fail I walk away unemotionally attached because I know I gave it my all. I can say ok Jay you did your best, it wasn't your fault. I don't want to repeat same mistakes, ever! At times I do and I say ok what was my lesson. What did I learn. What was my part. What could I have changed.
Embrace your part and move forward to create a better reality for yourself and your life. Own your part and failures so you don't repeat mistakes. Create your reality!
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