Thursday, August 22, 2019
Believe In Fate
It can be magical. It’s good to believe in stuff beyond our control that makes our hearts happy. Doesn’t hurt to dream a little too.
Only Care About What Really Matters
Sorry for all the swears but it’s true. I put up from people what I never imagined I would. Then. Now. I have a lot to learn and teach.
New Dating Mindset:Start Over
Clarify things and then start over. Sometimes things don’t go as you want but you have to move forward. Sometimes you don’t have a choice.
Fill In The Blanks...What Do You Need?
It’s exhausting at times. Not knowing what is wrong or what we need. It’s like ok let’s figure this out. I was upset the other day, tired and overworked. A friend said do you need me to hang up shelves. I said yes. I need a handy man. And I felt better. Because that’s all I needed. Minus all the other emotions. For a long time I depended on myself to figure out because my partner at the time didn’t make me feel like I could come to them. It wasn’t a good feeling.
So I saw this and it makes sense. That we should really use on others too.
I need a handy man so I can hang my mirrors and frames to make my space more complete.
See if I just filled in the blanks I would have been fine.
Now you go! Process before reacting. No problems only solutions. I even sent this to my girlfriends. We had some good laughs. But really you should try it too.
You’re Beautiful...It’s So Much More Than The Surface.
It’s never been about looks. It’s about how you make others feel. How you laugh. How you view life. Being beautiful is so much more than just skin deep.
It’s your love of life and people and adventure. You can have a pretty face and a dark soul. It’s not that. It’s having a beautiful kind soul that makes you truly beautiful inside and out.
You Don’t Always Have To Be Ok
We don’t always have to be ok and strong and happy. We can be weak and sad and lonely.
It’s ok. No one expects you to do otherwise. I think that’s a pressure we, me, you put on ourselves. Sometimes it’s ok to cry and be sad and down. Sometimes it’s ok to not always have stuff figured out.
Use Your Words Wisely
How they are interpreted. How they are perceived. Makes such an impact. Choose your words wisely.
Make sure you’re on the same page. Make sure to have an open dialogue so people are understanding the same thing. You don’t want to hurt anyone. It’s not about that. Sometimes happiness means someone else pain. It’s not intentional, we like to believe, just try to be good to people.
Make sure you’re on the same page. Make sure to have an open dialogue so people are understanding the same thing. You don’t want to hurt anyone. It’s not about that. Sometimes happiness means someone else pain. It’s not intentional, we like to believe, just try to be good to people.