Tuesday, December 22, 2020
What Are You Holding On To?
I once had a friend who was not in a great relationship. So much drama. Older couple too. Always on a verge of divorce and separation all their marriage. Their relationship was constant on and off with each other. They even have children together. All their family and friends knew their drama. I finally said you are either in 100% or out 100%. No buts. They are still in it and am sure miserable as ever which isn't the way to live.
You cannot live in limbo or make people feel like they are not enough. With everything in life you must give it your all or nothing. No middle ground. If you are with someone accept ALL of them. They are not in charge of your happiness. If you aren't happy leave. People do it all the time and start over and survive just fine and even happier. I did. Millions of people do.
People do not realize how everyone around you gets effected by this. People do not realize how easy it is to be happy. It is actually harder to be miserable. It takes more effort and energy to be sad and mad. It is more draining to be unhappy.
What do you choose to be? What are you holding on to?
It’s Date Night! Happily Co Date Box
With Covid you have to be creative to add some fun to your life. One concept we started was date night boxes. You get a box a month to have a fun date. You can break it up or do it all in one night.
This month box contains:
Instead of tea you can be creative and do spiked Egg Nog or hot toddy’s.
The best part is you and your partner/spouse take a little quiz together to determine the best type of date nights you would enjoy together.
This box is a detective game- ironically and then tea and scones and even a date night play list to play music. We have to bake it together play games and enjoy a nice night in.
Be sure to date someone who enjoys the same adventures and activities as you do. Be sure to keep your relationship fun and spontaneous. Be sure to enjoy the little moments in life.
Learn more here https://thehappily.co/
I Wish You Peace & Love
As the holidays approach us I want to remind you what it is really about. It is about surrounding yourself with love and peace. Happiness and joy. It isn't a time to think about what you do not have. It is about being grateful for what you do have.
I look forward to spending the holidays with my kids, family and boyfriend all together for my favorite holiday- Christmas Eve. It may not be the big celebration we are used to but at least we all have each other.
Be grateful for these moments and remember what life is really about!
