Get A Hold Of Your Emotions!

I have spoken about this many times. The importance of Emotional Intelligence. Where people lack it and it affects them greatly. 

I had a recent situation where someone can’t emotionally handle a situation that resulted them missing an important event due to them being jealous. They couldn’t emotionally handle being there in the presence of someone else. A person who came to show support for someone. 

Can you imagine? Could you imagine not being able to have control over your emotions so much that you would miss an important event because of being jealous or insecure or who else knows because I could not explain her actions. I understand if an event made you comfortable for a reason or you could not afford it BUT in life we make sacrifices. We make sacrifices for our kids and that’s the main goal. Our kids. Their happiness. 

The more I thought about it the more I couldn’t understand it. I just couldn’t wrap my mind around it as a parent. Nothing led to this person to feel this way. No arguments. No disagreements. This person has been around these people multiple times but yet years later they said they can’t attend an event because it’s too emotionally hard for them. 

Emotionally hard?

Please don’t be like this. I have faced uncomfortable situation before but focused on the importance of the reason I was there. I was able to set that aside and be there for people. Please do the same!