Wednesday, May 4, 2022
Changing Your Path…Curses Can Be Broken
Europeans….We are passionate. Loud. Aggressive. We love hard. We feel. Our emotions are strong.
I decided I didn’t want that anymore. I didn’t want to be around it. I didn’t want my kids to grow up like it.
I decided to really focus on my emotional intelligence. To not get mad when triggered. To communicate as much as possible.
I now am not phased by many things. Things that once consumed me. No longer do.
I broke a “generation curse” which means “ making the conscious decision to stop practicing, absorbing, and passing on toxic behaviors and personality traits.”
These are not just your family traits they are traits you marry into. They can be traits you see around you. They can be traits of your peers.
I still love hard but want my kids to grow up in a calm atmosphere where they think before reacting. Where emotions don’t get the best of us. Where emotional intelligence is top priority with being a good person.
It has to start someplace. What “generation curses” have you put to an end? What cycles have your broken?
The Tatami Room at Sakura in Westport CT
This was really cool. You walk in. Take off your shoes and sit on a mat on the floor, the table is build into the ground so your feet hang. They have slider doors so you’re extremely private in the room.
There’s no fee. They just include a 20% tip in your bill. Was a lot of fun to experience. The waitress looked so tall as you sit on the ground and get served.
I love at this age we find so many different things to experience together. He even had them sing to me for my birthday. Next we get to enjoy my gift of us taking Salsa dance classes together. Was really special to experience something unique in a restaurant I have been a hundred times. Was a great birthday night!
Be sure to experience it.