Be your own competition...better yourself everyday. Never compete with anyone else or for someone’s love or attention. Never tell someone how they need to treat you. They will know based on what makes you stay or walk away.
Wednesday, August 28, 2019
Let’s Break This Down...
I see certain posts that hit home or I feel I need to share with people of a reminder in life. A reminder that you don’t have to have anyone justify your worth. It’s actually selfish of us to put that pressure on someone else. But I will say that when you fight with someone or beg or plead your case you start to hear the words come out of your mouth. It’s like being an outsider looking in and as it’s all happening. Fast. As it’s unfolding and you’re emotionally in distress you have an awakening. It’s a reminder of who you are and what’s your worth.
Like I am woman hear me roar. It’s nothing to do with them. It has to do with you. It’s your reminder to yourself.
It’s powerful, sad and awakening at the same time. It’s never about them validating who you are. It’s your validating to yourself. What you can handle. What you deserve. What you need in life. Self love. Self respect. Pride.
Nothing to do with what someone can make your feel. It’s about how you feel about yourself.
You got this girl. I am proud of your bad self. 💗
Be Happy...Just Because
Because the sun is shining or your favorite song came on the radio or your kids gave you extra kisses or someone made you lunch or a stranger smiled at you.
I must say I have a lot of great people in my life. Willing to help me. To make my life easier. My mom helped my daughter so I could work. I am swamped at work and a colleague offered to help with a report I was stuck on. A mommy friend was picking up supplies for school and asked what I needed. My daughters gave me big bear hugs this morning. All my family is coming over for dinner. My favorite songs came on the radio.
What’s there not to be happy about?
See it’s not what went wrong today. It’s what went right. And everyday life can be viewed these two ways. It’s your decision. 💗✌️
Be You...Always
There’s no compromising. There never should be and if you ever have to well then they aren’t the right person for you.
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When It Gets To This Point...Fight or Flight
You can be looking at the same situation and both seeing it completely differently. When one has other distractions they can’t view their role in a situation clearly. You can’t possibly think someone gets hurt or upset out of no where. You have to understand your role and then it’s up to you both to decide what to do from there.
When someone isn’t feeling respected or visible or acknowledged or when their intuition is off it can trigger something in them. You do play a role. You have to understand. It’s just acknowledging what role you want to play in it. And then it’s deciding to fight it out for a good outcome or flight and leave the situation or relationship because it’s getting no where.
You have to understand people don’t just wake up and say today is the day I want you out of my life. When you push and push it comes to a point when they grant you your wish.
Be careful what you decide and how you make your choices.
Seek Within...
The truth is some situations don’t deserve your attention. When something doesn’t feel right inside it doesn’t matter what someone says you have to walk away.
You...You’re Amazing
Choose yourself. Some situations come along and you have some wtf moments. But you have to choose you. Say no to when situations don’t feel right. Say no to behaviors you don’t want or need to accept. You’re amazing. You don’t need to prove that to anyone.