Tuesday, January 14, 2020
It’s Your Choice
Choose the one who makes everyday magical and happy and good. Even on your bad days. ❤️
555 Patterns Again
Third day I saw this. Again the curiosity struck me and I had to look it up. I laughed. It’s like 2020 all summed up. To be in sync with your true self.
Are You Giving Your Power Away?
You ever hear the phrase you create your own problems? Well it is true. A lot of times something reminds us of someone and we relive a moment or a pain or a memory.
In that moment it’s hard to be ok. You may be sad or have doubts. You may have pain.
It’s normal but please remember some people occupy too much space in your mind. That a lot of times pain and anger or sadness is within us not from the outside.
I had a friend I don’t even know where I would begin explaining this person but I hold a lot of emotions and space in my mind for this person. So much that I get mad at my own self.
It’s a process to just work it through. One day at a time. Slowly you gain your power back. Emotions can’t always be in control. You have to be in control. Use logic or your common sense. That always helps. Or shift your focus. Think of the good in your life verse what you’re missing. Play music. Distract yourself. Remember we always hold a space for people in our heart doesn’t mean they have to control our emotions or our life.
Find Your People
Find the person or people who make you excited about life. Excited for the next day. Things to look forward to. Embrace your journey and be grateful.
I never understood why people would have people
in their life that promotes self doubt or didn’t love them like they needed to be loved. Funny writing that. I had to pause. I loved plenty of people who didn’t love me like I needed to be loved. I always felt like being with them was like Christmas morning. Yet their reaction was minimal. Little things made me happy and they mocked it. Like “J anything makes you happy”. It’s true. Little things make me more happy than big things.
I changed. I got out of all those situations. But now. At my age. I only want to be around people who make
Me feel alive and look forward to tomorrow. Please do the same! And please do find joys in little things in life. Why not spark the magic in you. 💗
Do You Stay or Leave
I love this guy. He’s really brilliant and I think we all take away our own views. We all can relate in a different way. Check it out.
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What If You Look At Love Differently
What if you don’t just focus on the romantic aspects of love. What if the love your child gives you or a family member or a friend gives you outshines any love you had.
What if people come into your life and show you true happiness. With no expectations. Just love me and I love you. We make eachother feel good. We appreciate eachother. We look out for one another and enjoy our best life together.
I will tell you for so long I felt men I dated had to fulfill love in my life. When really I wasn’t getting what I gave. No one came out and said hey J I missed you so much my heart hurts. Yet mine did.
Now I look and see the love my kids give me and parents and sisters and family and friends and my god it makes me say all this time I was looking for love in the wrong places.
You love someone tell them. I was tired of telling people who couldn’t understand or appreciate my love. Meanwhile I am filled with love all around and was too sad to notice.
Love yourself. 💗
You Make Me Happy
Today I want you to turn to a person and tell them this
“You Make Me Super Happy”
Could be a spouse. Companion. Child. Friendship. Family member. Coworker. Whom ever. Just do it. After think about how it made you feel and mostly think about how it made them feel! 💗
Only Chase Your Dreams Girl
What’s meant for you won’t be hard for you. It won’t be doubt or ignoring you or make you feel insecure. It won’t be living on edge or not knowing where you stand. What’s meant for you will be easy and fun and love you with your whole being.
We all have things to change. Chasing people is one of them. If someone loves and honors you. Respects you. Respects who you are as a person. Then there is no chasing. They are drawn to you. They need you in your life because you make them feel good.
Life is short. Be with those who love you. Love those who are good to you and for you.
Please honor yourself enough to not chase anything but your dreams. I have. I expect you to do the same. 💗
Be Aligned Within
Have the courage to say my life isn’t how I want it to
be. Then slowly make the changes you need. You have to be able to be balanced. To not overdo one thing over the other. To be aligned within.
When you are at peace your whole being is balanced.
We Need Eachother
We need eachother. I can’t say it enough. I always had guy friends. I love a guys perspective. Men need girls who are friends. We help men too.
So a group of us have been hanging and I turn to my friend and say you need to start wearing more button downs. He had on a sweater. He’s like oh I have that one and a light one and so on. I said good wear it.
This morning my friend texts me a picture of him. Wearing a button down. It was like a proud mom
moment. He looked awesome.
One simple little suggestion can change someone. Can help them make one adjustment. He was so cute in the picture. I was so proud of him.
I think moments like this makes you realize God puts people in your life for a reason. Sometimes they stay. Sometimes they don’t but we do need eachother...at that moment.
I seen a huge difference in him in only a week and feel it’s amazing. He told us he goes salsa dancing I have been wanting to go so badly for a year now. My eyes lite up. So we booked a night and he is taking us to the best salsa clubs. I can hardly wait.
I always needed that person in my life at that time and showed appreciation. Regardless how friendships ended I needed them and to be honest they needed me too.
This group is a fun feel good group and I love how we already are helping eachother.
My life has changed over the years. People come and go. Friendships change and end. No one wants to see things come to an end even if it ends upset but do take the good memories and times with you.
Just like you my readers. You come to my site because somehow I help you and well you too help encourage me. So I thank you!
January 14 Growth Affirmation
Every experience. Every journey. Every person you come across. All contribute to your growth. Be grateful for that!
