Thursday, July 23, 2020
Have You Had A Slimcado?
I saw these at Stew Leonard’s and has to try it. It’s less calories than an avocado. It was pretty tasty. This one was from Florida. Have you ever tired a Slimcado?
The Beauty Of Virtual Meetings
You see these memes all the time. Business jacket. Underwear. It’s an ongoing joke with everyone working virtually. You can wear yoga pants and be dressed up waist up. So today I had a video recording session and had to look professional.
Easy. No one had to know I kept my Bermuda shorts on. Waist up professional. That’s all that mattered.
Everything Helped Me!
Being emotionally available and mature and intelligent takes time. It’s easy to put up a wall. It’s easy to go about life and use substances to numb your pain. True growth is looking at your life and saying ok let’s dig up this pain and deal with it. Let’s make some changes.
All along I was me. I am who I am today because I unburied a lot of pain and anger and issues. I had to ground myself to say ok this happened how are you going to handle it? I couldn’t allow situations to consume me. You can’t make anyone change but yourself. I couldn’t allow other people’s actions affect me. I had to only correct myself. I can’t correct anyone else. I had to realize today I am who I am because all the situations helped me. I needed those experiences.
You Get What You Accept
It’s a learning process. You then look within yourself and think you deserved this type of treatment. Then one day you say I won’t allow anyone to treat me like that again and magically people stop. You choose to be around different people. You choose to love different people. You select who you want to spend your time with.
I wasted time on people who I felt I wasn’t getting emotionally what I needed. I was questioning my own self. That’s when I changed.
When you change you no longer allow people to make you feel any way but good. You get from people what you allow. Remember that.
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