Let’s Be Spontaneous

Lately if I had to pick one word to describe my life it would be....Spontaneous. And I must admit I am loving it.  

Now I am a planner. I plan a lot of stuff and like structure so for me to be spontaneous throws me off. My day my plans and I have been having a great time. 

My day is unpredictable. Most of ours are like that. Never know what the day would bring. What if you threw in some fun in your day? What if you did something out of your norm?  How magical would that be?

My girlfriends love it. Love my stories. Love my responses. They crack up lately. 

Spontaneous can be a “hey wanna go for a walk” “hey can you meet for lunch” “hey let’s get together tonight” “ hey can you meet tomorrow” 

I never used to love Weekdays like I do now. I never take life for granted. I love life. You should too. 

Are You Stuck? Change Your Life

She’s amazing and actually coming out with a talk show. Watch this TedX. Never feel stuck in your life. Get what you want. 

Some clips on her 5 second rule

You Don’t Always Have To Be Ok

You don’t always have to be strong and happy and good. Especially...Men. 

Oh men. You can be weak and sad or stressed. It’s ok. We don’t expect men to always hold back their feelings or not be overwhelmed. But it’s all in your approach. 

I find it extremely sexy when men open up about their feelings and emotions. Sounds silly but it actually means they trust you. They feel comfortable with you to confide in you. 

Men it’s ok to confide in someone and vent. We don’t expect you to take on the world without some emotions attached to it. 

Feel Good Song: Man in the Mirror

Always Follow Your Intuition

Love Has To Be Respected

Feel Good Song: Ghost

Love this song! Listen to the words. 💗

Listen to the Universe

Feel Good Song: Move Your Body

Momma Needs A Hug

❤️

You Make Me Happy

When was the last time you were with someone and you walked away thinking wow they really make me happy?

That person...the one who makes you feel this way plays a very important role in your life. 

They will help keep you young and enjoying life. Now it’s not just a partner or someone you date or see. It’s friends. It’s family. It’s your kids. It’s co workers. Anyone who makes you happy plays a very important role in your life. Be sure to be around them often. They will help you feel alive. They add years to your life. 

This weekend I was around a lot of good feeling make me happy people. I must say I went to bed happy and woke up happy. How lucky am I and you to have simple things in our life...people who make us happy. 

I ran into a friend at an event. This person is like a ray of sunshine always was always will be. I lite up when I saw them. 

How amazing to know that you too make someone feel that way? That you can be someone’s ray of sunshine too. Yep. Life is pretty magical and so are you. 

Life Changes...Be Prepared

Happy Monday...What’s Your Positive Thought?

Think of it...now. Now go enjoy your amazing day 💗

Let Go Of Your Insecurities

We all have insecurities. It’s normal. Even the prettiest  or in best shape girl questions herself I said to a girlfriend. I had to call her and break it down. I had to tell her that a friend of mine I have been friends with since last summer I still get self conscious around. It’s normal. I bet he does too around me. It’s human. We all second guess stuff. We all wonder what the other person thinks and how they view us. 

I remember the last guy I dated for like 5 months everyday we went home I wasn’t sure when I would see him again. Isn’t that crazy? Crazy to think of what if he doesn’t like me tomorrow. What if he doesn’t call. What if he realizes he doesn’t want to be with me anymore. And then he didn’t want to be with me anymore and guess what life goes on.  So dumb I know to worry about things when things will just happen without our control anyway but it’s something that we all do. We are our own worse enemies. 

Trust me they will call again. You will see them again. They think you’re beautiful and perfect or else they wouldn’t enjoy your company. Let the insecurities go. Trust me I have to work on it too. We are perfect the way we are. Embrace it. And if you’re not happy then make minor changes in you but for yourself. No one else. And if they don’t call again or want to see you again than it’s their lose. You’re amazing and perfect just the way you are. If they can’t see it then let them walk away.