Friday, October 30, 2020
Relationship Gratitude: Food Is Love
Food is love. I was brought up that food was a social connection and emotional connection. I know not always a good thing but if I loved you I fed you and well people who love to eat are my type of people.
I loved trying new places prior to Covid now I am very cautious. I have been cooking a lot more and it’s great to bring new and old recipes into my relationship. Food is comfort and a nice home cooked meal really makes a difference in a day. I think he’s hugged me more over a home cooked meal then anything else and it feels great!
I am grateful for all my foodies in my life who share meals with and laughs and love and full bellies.
Be grateful for the foodies in your life.
Intensity Doesn’t Mean A Stronger Love
I lived through this. Intensity. I thought that was how relationships were suppose to be. Intense. The more passionate the better. The more suspenseful the better. No one I was with wanted or could give me a calm simple love.
I had a lot to learn. I kept choosing wrong partners. I didn’t know better. Then I realized that was far from what I wanted and needed. The older I got the more calm I wanted my partner to be. Never mistake intensity for love. Never ever. Some people may enjoy the drama. Not I.
I needed a solid foundation where two people can communicate and agree to disagree and be secure in ourselves as individuals that it didn’t get projected on to one another.
What’s your love life like?
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