I am not perfect. I have a lot to learn. But a girlfriend texted me and I said remember there are no rules. Do what you want to do. We get upset with unmet expectations when you don’t have expectations you cannot get upset, Right?!
She replied thank you Yoda and I sent her this.
Life isn’t what it was years ago. Everything has changed. The rules changed. What a man and woman role is has changed. When you go into a situation and say I am going to just be happy you enjoy it. Once it’s complicated you make the decision to leave or work on it. Early on signs are always there. What I don’t like about someone when I first meet them will be the cause of arguments later. You have to understand that. We go in blind. Happy. Then things happen and we act shocked. Nope. No need to be shocked. Take your loss and move on. No more loving the wrong people or allowing them to come in and out of your life when it’s convenient for them or when they feel like it. You can love them from afar. You can love them forever doesn’t mean they deserve a spot in your life.
You must follow your gut. Intuition. Souls awakening. The signs are there. Happiness is the main goal always. Remember that. Your happiness is your main goal.