The Apology

Sometimes you don’t get closure. Sometimes you do. 

I had someone reach out to me today. It’s been 8 months since we spoke. He asked if I would give him an opportunity to apologize to me. 

I said yes. 

He went on to say he wasn’t in a good place- which I figured- and how he apologized for just sort of just disappearing. He asked to see me and I said thank you but no. I appreciated his apology and respected him for it but it’s best to be left in the past. 

I will not lie. It felt good he said something. I felt we live life thinking we never get closure and wonder what WE did wrong for things to end. But most of the times it has nothing to do with us. 

I won’t see him again or speak with him but at least I know this chapter ended with him and it had nothing to do with me. 

We don’t always get closures. But when you love yourself and know your worth you don’t allow just anyone to take your time and energy from you. 

This is the third person past week I have had cross my path and have given me closure. 

Learn your lessons. 

Carry on...