I was always skeptical about this. I felt forgiving meant saying it’s ok. It’s ok you did that to me. I forgive you. No worries. All good. There are some things in my life I would NEVER say it’s ok it happened I forgive you all good. But acceptance is another aspect.
I accept everything that’s ever happened to me. I do. I accept and that helped me heal those wounds. I accept that someone couldn’t love me or treat me the way I needed. Do I forgive their actions...no not all of it. Because I didn’t deserve those treatments. I didn’t deserve their outburst or insecurities. I didn’t deserve for them to project on to me. Reality is I had nothing to do with their actions I just happened to have them
do it to me.
Forgiving...it’s however you want it to be. Acceptance is however you want it to be.
However you need to heal is what works best for you. Just practice on healing so you let go of that power over you. 💜
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