Live The Life YOU Want To Live

No one will give you the life you want to live unless you work towards giving it to yourself. You may not be happy where you are but you do have the power to change it. So yes it’s ok to be mad about it but then get up, take action, take the risks, work hard and make it happen.  End of day it’s your life. Learn to be happy in it. 

Today’s Lesson: The Only Way To Get Ahead Is To Not Let The Noise Get To You

There’s a lot of “outside” influences and “noise” that can make or break you! Just don’t let it. This lesson shows that no matter what people say or do just be you. It’s the best way to be. Don’t let anything change who you are or get the best of you. Life is hard and isn’t lived for anyone but yourself and those who love you for you. You got this!

“Choose Kind” and Support PACER's National Bullying Prevention Center

Love this!! Every purchase benefits the PACER's National Bullying Prevention Center

https://www.omaze.com/made/wonder-film-choose-kind

Fun St. Paddy’s Day Celebrations in CT

Fun St. Patrick’s Day Fun In CT. Check out this link of fun events!

http://www.ctvisit.com/articles/st-patricks-day-celebrations

Today’s Lesson: You Can’t Move Forward If You Are Holding Onto Anger

This is easier said than done. BUT...yes there’s a but...you can’t move forward, truly start a fresh life, truly get happiness, unless you let go of anger. Now this doesn’t only apply to relationships ending, it applies to anything in your life that has caused you hurt and pain and anger. You have to learn to let it go. Doesn’t mean the pain goes away just means you don’t let the anger consume you. Change you. Prevent you from being happy. You may be angry that a loved one passes away or angry at losing a job. All that has to come to the surface so you can then heal and move forward.  We all have triggers in us the brings that anger to the surface. Let it go. Nothing good comes out of being angry. Let go of anger so you can move forward and be happy. Truly. With all your heart and soul. Be happy!

Change Your Attitude & Enjoy Life

Ludal’s In North Haven...Amazing!

Oh. My. Oh. My. I don’t normally select an Italian Restaurant to go to since I am Italian. A friend suggested dinner at Ludal’s in North Haven and after checking out the menu I was all for it and it was amazing! 

Kind of reminded me of a traditional Italian family dinner. Started off we amazing bread and garlic knots, then we got our appertizers. Then they bring you a salad- included in dinner- then you get your main course. And just when you think you will Pop you get the dessert menu. So worth the drive and such fun company. Was totally an awesome night! Be sure to check it out. I can’t wait to go back. 

http://ludalct.com/

Today’s Lesson: Not Everyone Has Good Intentions For You & That’s Ok

You get caught up in drama that people may love to create but best thing is to just not feed into it. People won’t always have good intentions for you and that is ok. Pray for those people. If they can take the time

to judge and mistreat you that means they are really hurting deep down themselves. The power of prayer is strong. Regardless of what religion you are. Pray for those who don’t wish you well. Pray for those in pain. Pray for you to keep being a good person. Wake up happy. Go to bed happy. 

Only Good Intentions Apply Here...

You reach a stage where happiness becomes an everyday goal! Where negativity and dealing with people who don’t have good intentions is no longer allowed to absorb your well being! Take ownership of your life and well being!

Difference Between Successful & Unsuccessful People

Have You Found Your Purpose?

Wind Humor...Hope You All Survived The Storm With No Damage

Grateful For My Dad...Be A Good Father & Partner

Even as a grown adult every time I say goodbye to him

he says remember call me if you need anything at all. He’s always had my back and grateful for the love and support he’s given to me throughout my whole life and through this divorce. Every parent just wants their children to be happy, live a stressless life. Can’t always happen but makes it easier knowing someone is a call away if you ever need them. He’s always worked super hard for his family and never once complained or threw it in our face. We joke he’s the one who always drove the crappy cars while he gave my mom

the high end vehicles and always made sure us girls had good cars.  I stopped by yesterday to their house and he was leaving, said he just stopped to fill my mom’s car with gas so she didn’t have to do it in the storm. That’s love. My mom is fully capable of taking care of herself but it does feel amazing to have someone do something nice for you out of love and without asking. 

Goals! To find one day, long time from

 now, a partnership like my parents have. Someone who has my back, willing to do stuff for one another without throwing it in each other’s face. Be a team.  Do for you because that’s love. A team is making sure each member loves and respects one another and wants to see that other person happy. Make their life a little easier. Crazy how this concept still doesn’t catch on for people and relationships. 

A good father is one doing for their kids without complaining or giving up! It’s putting kids first over your own happiness. Sometimes people forget! Grateful for mine!

5 Lessons In Life From...Dr.Seuss

Feel Good Song- Forever Young by Rod Stewart

My middle one turned 5 today 5! She’s amazing. I was pregnant with her when I found out I have Thyroid Cancer. She saved my life. She helped me see goodness in life during a really rough time for
me. She always makes me smile. She always has my back. It’s crazy her connection to me. She’s super smart and wise and helpful and gorgeous and well this song is perfect for her and all my kids. Being their mom has really filled my heart is so much love and happiness. I am forever grateful for them!

“Be courageous and be brave and in my heart you’ll always stay forever young!”

Take Responsibility For Your Life

Restaurant Week Stamford March 5-11, 2018

Learn More Here: HPFOODWEEK.COM

Always Stay Positive...Good Days Always Ahead

Syrup Saturday at the New Canaan Nature Center

https://newcanaanchamber.com/calendar/syrup-saturday-a-pancakes-pjs-party/

A Girl Should Be...

Self-care...Be Good To YOU!

Be good to YOU. Take a nap, rest, order whatever you’re craving, hang out with people who make your soul happy. Self-care is so important. You have to take a time out and regroup. Meditate. Watch reruns of your favorite show. Let go off stress. You need to be ok to be good for others!

Cafe Madrid In Norwalk...Delicious

If you haven’t tried out the revamped Cafe Madrid then you have to give it a try! This Italian/Latin infused restaurant has some delicious items on their menu and must say I can’t wait to go back. They are going to start offering a buffet style brunch on Sundays. Will have to check it out. 

A group of us went for a friend’s birthday and it was perfect. We started with red sangria, their arugula prosciutto pizza and empanadas. My main dish was the Pasta Juliano- Pasta with grilled chicken and mushrooms tossed in pesto sauce. Delicious. I wasn’t in the mood for dessert so instead enjoyed a Frozen Mudslide- yep I will be craving this! The adult milkshake. Perfect night with some super fun ladies, belly laughs, and great food. 

http://www.cafemadridcontinental.com/

We All Want Our Moms When We Are Sick

First time both kids slept through the night since their surgery and let me tell you if they didn’t I think I would have gotten sick myself. Lack of sleep is torture to the body. It was like I had newborns all over again- waking up every three hours- except this time they would call for me in pain. You couldn’t help but feel awful for them yet pray for some rest. 

My oldest had the toughest time. She would leave for her Dad’s house then call me to get her. He’s a great Dad but we all want out moms when we are sick. It came to a point that I could predict her moves so I canceled my plans for th night and napped because I knew she would be home. 

Now my three year old recovered about three days faster than my nine year old. Which is crazy because they say the older you get the harder to recover. The other amazing thing about tonsil surgery is that my kids no longer snore. That’s a huge thing for me. Of course you panic at first to make sure they are breathing, but when they snores it’s like they struggled to breath.  But so glad they finally get real, normal sleep, and taste and smell like they should. It’s been a long journey but glad it’s only up hill from here. 

Easter Fun at St. Ann’s In Norwalk

Don’t Fear Positive Changes...

Medusa: A Paper Plate & Construction Paper

Been a long 10 tens with my oldest and youngest recovery from having their tonsils out so when you get a reminder from a teacher that kids have to dress up to present their project in a couple days you can freak out or put on your creative hat and get to work. Who knew that a paper plate and construction paper could pull together a Medusa costume. Hope my daughter appreciates what a creative Mom she has! 💚

Choose Wisely Who You Spend Your Time With...

Love this and it’s true! There are people who don’t make you feel your best and you feel you have to compete with- run from those type of people. 

Hey Norwalk Hospital...Time For A Change

I am not one to talk negative. I truly believe that there’s always two sides to a story. I believe people and places can have an “off day” but as I sit in the emergency room at Norwalk Hospital for over an hour with my daughter I can’t help to vent by voicing my opinion. We were there 11:30 pm to 2:15 am before getting seen. So I went right to the source and I emailed the CEO of the hospital. 

I voiced my concern of not having a Pediatric Emergency Department. I voiced my concern that kids should not be in same area of everyone else coming into the ER. The emergency room is a very scary place. Scary for adults and even more scarier for children. My daughter fell alseep in a chair as other patients waiting to be seen just looked at her. It’s my child she should be in a place that’s comfortable. With other parents with children. There were three other families there, one even left because the wait was crazy, and I know with the Flu scare that the rooms get full but at least there should be a place where children feel comfortable. At 1:00 am I asked the front desk how much longer. They didn’t know. I also asked what protocol was for being seen. They said they go by priority. I don’t mean to be selfish but my child is my top priority and I wanted her seen ASAP so I could help her feel better. 

The response back from the CEO to my email was amazing. Michael Daglio personally responded back to my email and it was sincere and genuine and hopefully this will help make a difference.

 Local Hospitals, like Stamford Hospital, provide Pediatric Emergency rooms and areas and I think it really shows some creditability. There’s no reason why Norwalk Hospital can’t provide the same service. 

My daughter ended up being dehydrated and was sent home with anti-nausea meds and the IV fluid they gave her have helped a lot. The nurses were amazing but as I walked her numerous times to the bathroom we passed adults on stretchers and sick adults rooms and I kept telling her not to look and to look straight ahead.  

I know we can’t always get what we want but I love Norwalk and being a parent means fighting not only for your child but for all children. I hope my email

does make a difference and if any parent has to deal with what I dealt with at least let their children be in a comfortable child friendly atmosphere!

Are Your Feelings Being Validated?

I read this article and felt it was really important to share. When you are in a relationship or friendship there’s nothing worse than not having your feelings and emotions validated. People think this means agreeing with how someone feels but it actually doesn’t. It just means “acknowledging” what the other person is feeling. Try it, it could really help your relationships, friendships and ability to feel compassion for someone else while improving communication.

Understanding Validation: A Way to Communicate Acceptance | Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/pieces-mind/201204/understanding-validation-way-communicate-acceptance

Happy Random Acts Of Kindness Day!

What have you done today? ❤️

Best Valentine Ever!

It’s my first Valentine’s Day solo and my sister bought me this. Enjoy the laugh and Happy Valentine’s Day to all of you!!! ❤️

My Special Valentine...

I have three ❤️

Rizzutos Valentine’s Menu Feb 10-14th

Valentine’s Day Menu Special Feb 10-14th. http://www.rizzutos.com/

Salt Cave In Ridgefield

What an awesome experience. I actually saw the deal on Groupon and went with my sister. It’s been on my “bucket list” for a while.  It was amazing. 

The salt cave is so peaceful and good for your body. All my aches magically disappeared. Better than a massage and cheaper. You go in a room filled with Himalayan salt on the walls and floor. Your body just absorbs it. People were walking in saying they are there to help with their sinuses. It is so calming. They give you a blanket and you sit in a zero gravity chair. You lay back and they have a voice in speaker telling you the benefits and history of this concept. They then tell you to sit back and relax. They play soft music so you can meditate. Honestly we didn’t want to leave. The room was so cozy and pretty.  I have a Himalayan salt lamp in my bedroom and love it, imagine a whole room filled with it, just awesome! So spiritual!

Check it out! http://m.saltanacave.com/

Connect Within & Then Heal

Digging deep can be painful. A lot of time we let anger cover up how we truly feel. You need to unbury those emotions in order to feel, heal and move forward. When was the last time you opened up to yourself. Forgave yourself and feel. Try it. 

Focus On The In Between

Valentine’s Day Menu at The Village Tavern

http://vtridgefield.com/

Singles Mixer Feb 14th At Killer B In Sono

Killer B in Sono is hosting an event for single people on Feb 14th. No need to face this holiday alone. Go out and have some fun!

Learn More Here: Killer B Sono Singles Mixer

Be Patient & Accept Your Journey

 

Today’s Lesson: It’s Never Easy But Don’t Face It All Alone

I was always torn from day one. Being a mom and running a business. It’s not easy. Working and being a parent is not easy. Trying to be all these things isn’t easy. Today I learned it’s ok to ask for help. I was so grateful to have help with my kids this week. They keep getting sick and working from home means they stay home yet working tends to be super difficult. Grateful I have my family and in laws who are always willing to help. I just can’t juggle it all sometimes and it’s ok. Even their dad stepped in and helped. I have to grow my business even more being single yet have to be a nurturing mom even more too. Especially since they have been through so much change. The balance is hard. I want to pour my heart and soul into being a Mom and I want to pour my heart and soul into my job. Sometimes the two conflict. It’s never easy, I have to accept that but grateful to have help by those who want to try to make it a bit easier to manage. 

Enjoy Your Life Now: Don’t Wait

Valentine’s Day Dinner at Knot Norm’s

5 course meal includes their lobster roll  and wine pairing...$65. This place has the best lobster roll I ever had. Delicious! Check it out! http://knotnorms.com/

Follow Your Dreams...Open New Doors

Feel Good Song: Cough Syrup by Young the Giant

Give Yourself Some Credit...

Today’s Lesson: Say Sorry For Your Part

It takes two in every situation. Two people who let go or two people who didn’t give things their all. Two people who could of been better, done better, treated eachother better. Today’s Lesson is to say sorry for your part. Even if it doesn’t change the outcome it just feels good to say it and good to hear it so say sorry when you need to and heal. 

Valentines Fun At Tumble Jungle

https://tumblejungle.com/

Today’s Lesson: Try Not To Always React

“Not every emotion deserves a reaction!”

Through the process of healing or finding yourself it’s good to know stuff about yourself that you need to change or work on. I am a reactor. It’s a flaw I know and today it clicked that every time I feel something I don’t need to react to it. Just feel. 

It’s Just Takes One...

It just takes one person to help you change your whole outlook. I love hanging out around people. I love talking to people. I love it because you always walk away with more knowledge, more hope, more understanding. When you talk to people you learn something new...almost every single time. It’s powerful it’s amazing. I woke up yesterday not feeling so great. I was down. I was confused. I was torn about moving forward or taking a step back.  I went to bed that night feeling great. Happy. Hopeful. Don’t alienate yourself from others. Be around people. It helps you grow. Helps you look at life differently. Helps push you to the right direction. What a difference 12 hours can make. Give yourself that!

Feel Good Song: No Women No Cry by Bob Marley

Happy Birthday Bob Marley!

Appreciate Your Tribe

It’s important to not do this journey alone. Grateful for my team of moms and non-moms who have made my journey in life so much easier. 

Brunch Crunch Feb 11th

 

Trust Your Timing Of Life...

Are You On The Right Path...

Super Bowl Humor: Who Are You Rooting For

World Cancer Day: Survivor: Grateful!

Source: I Had Cancer Instagram

It’s World Cancer Day! Thinking of all those battling their battles and blessing those who have won their battles. Thinking of those who lost their battles. 

I gratefully saw my doctor this week and my levels are perfect, no trace of cancer in my blood work and she even lowered my medicine dose. Grateful everyday. My scar can’t been seen by many but it’s a sign of strengthen. No one should have to battle cancer. But grateful I didn’t do it alone. Grateful for my kids, my family and friends and amazing doctors. April will be 5 years cancer free. Can’t wait for that day, chances of reoccurrences after 5 years is slim. 

I Just Came For The Music...

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