Wednesday, June 19, 2019
Adam Sandler Is Coming to CT
Comedian Adam Sandler is coming to Harbor Yard on Tuesday, June 25th. Check out tickets here: https://www.websterbankarena.com/events/detail/adam-sandler
Are You Living Your Best Life?
Let go of anything that isn’t allowing you to live your best life! You’re never stuck. You’re always one decision away from a better life. You can’t fully be happy around anyone unless you’re happy with you, your life, your decisions. Surround yourself with things and people who make your soul happy.
It’s not about having a lot of money or material things. It’s waking up and being happy just to be happy. To have a happy, carefree, content, soul.
You’re cheating yourself if you don’t.
Tuesday, June 18, 2019
You Can’t Control Everything!
I had to accept this. You can’t control everything. You have to take things for what they are and leave it up
to the universe.
Enjoy the journey and respect the process, not everything you expected to happen happens, everything that hurts us teaches us a little about ourselves. What we will tolerate or not... Who we will love again...What makes us happy and what doesn’t.
Sometimes when you let things be they come back together the way they are meant to, sometimes a complete different path is created for you.
Let’s Make A Deal...
Here’s the thing about women. We always have eachother backs. We always push eachother to see our highest good, to see how amazing we are. Especially when someone else may have not appreciated us like
they should have appreciated us. Even when life doesn’t turn out how we thought it would.
I had dinner with a girlfriend last night. We dated friends and that’s how we became close. Obviously those relationships didn’t turn out how we wanted but we got to meet eachother so that in itself was worth it.
She’s like a warm, big, hug my soul type of gal. Her personality is like no one I ever met. We created goals for one another. We gave eachother a couple weeks to accomplish these goals. Four things we had to do and when we hang out again we had to at least started them, better yet accomplished them.
Goals she created for me:
- Network more- grow my network for work
- Finish a house project I have been working on
- Let the past go- don’t look back but forward 100% at all avenues and angles. We discussed what each situation taught me
- Start reading this book she recommended “Own The Day Own Your Life”
Goals I created for her:
- Look your personality- I asked her to change her look. She doesn’t fit her inner amazing self. I know sounds awful but it’s not. When she smiles she lights up a room and her look doesn’t represent that at all. Her happy, carefree, fun as hell personality is covered up and well she’s excited to change it. I said I wanted to peel your true self out of this mask you have. Climb out of your shell.
- She was starting the book again that she recommended to me.
- She will look at new places to move to create more freedom emotionally.
- Let her past go. She’s better than any man she was ever with and know your worth.
We all need real friends in our life that can look at us and say “know your worth.” “Make this change to better yourself”. “You’re better than that.”
Ladies we have to take this chance in life to help others. She asked what do you want your life to look like? “ I just want to be happy, I want to spread happiness, I want to be carefree and let go of all that has made me not be my true self.”
So do it! Start today.
Monday, June 17, 2019
Breakfast Tip: Jimmy Dean Delights
Now that school is over it was time to load up on snacks in the house. I went to Costco and saw these. I like testing out new products in bulk only when I know other people in the house will enjoy the item too. I must admit these are really good. You wrap them in paper towel and it takes less than two minutes to heat up. Yes the sodium level is a bit high due to the turkey sausage but still not a bad breakfast meal.
I cut out more carbohydrates by removing the bottom part of the English muffin. Even my youngest daughter enjoys it. She said it reminds her of the turkey sausage egg and cheese sandwiches we get at Dunkin Donuts. You get 12 for $11.99.
Sunday, June 16, 2019
Sometimes The Right Words Just Click...
“If you saw you from my eyes you’d never settle again!” My girlfriend said this to me and it sat with me. I then told her if she was a dude I would date her. But all jokes aside many times did you take more than you deserved. Did you settle for comfort. Did you take a step back because you felt you didn’t deserve more. Did you avoid growth in fear of failure.
Don’t! No more!
Bugsy's Dueling Piano Speakeasy in Hamden CT
I finally made it here and I will totally be going back. It’s so much fun! My best friend was home and we planned a girls night. At first we were going to do the typical night out in Sono and I said hey I been really wanting to do to this piano bar. Of course she’s like let’s go.
Cover was $10 a person. We didn’t make reservations but our seats were awesome. Right in front. They give you a sheet where you request songs for them to play. Everyone is dancing and singing alone. You can throw money on the pianos to stop them singing a song and move to the next one requested. Honestly it felt like we were crashing someone’s party. The energy in the room was amazing. Everyone was having a great time.
So many people there for their birthday. They call the Birthday person down and they sit on the piano and sing to you. It’s such a fun atmosphere. We ordered a margarita pizza that had pesto. It was delicious.
We met a cute older couple next to us that were celebrating her birthday. She shared her champagne and birthday cake with us. She even tried to set me up with her single son who wasn’t there. Funny I know.
I love checking out new places. I left with a happy heart. Just to experience different things and it’s not even expensive. Loved to check this place off my bucket list.
Great vibe. Great atmosphere. Just a happy, feel
good place.Can’t wait to go back!
Are You Happy For You or Those Around You?
I asked a friend this. They responded “good question”.
See we tend to think if we do what others want us to do we will be happy. Not ok. We can’t sacrifice our happiness to please others. Now being selfish and selfless are two different things. They give you two different results in life. One makes you content with some guilt. Other makes others content at the cost of something on your end.
We all have made some selfish decisions in our life. I get it and being concerned with others is always important. But at what cost to your own happiness and fulfillment of life. What are you willing to let go of to make others happy? What have you let go of to make
others happy? What hurt did you cause yourself?
I found this article it’s really fascinating and on point. Take the time to really read it and begin your true quest to being happy.
25 Things You Should Give Up If You Want To Be Happy
Take a Time Out...Do The Things That Bring You Joy
What’s this settling in life business? You never settle. ever! 💜
Happy Father's Day To All The Men In Your Life & Mine
Men at times are under appreciated...I know I know women do not get mad, let's admit it. We all know men need guidance, a woman's love, help with daily tasks and need a woman's touch. Men live for danger and adventure. They get bored easily, like to be the protector. Men need to be desired, yet not smothered or mothered. Men thrive on feeling like a king and if you treat them like so they will treat you like a Queen. All jokes aside a good man isn't hard to find. A unwounded man is. Let's raise them to be good people. Let's appreciate the good men who are good father's to our kids. Let's appreciate what men do for us. They aren't like women, they are unique, sensual, creatures.
Enjoy the men in your life and appreciate the Father's in your life; your husbands, brothers, fathers, cousins, ex husbands whomever.
Happy Father's Day to them all!
Saturday, June 15, 2019
Playland Free For Dads On Father’s Day
$20 admission plus Dad rides for free. Awesome deal and a fun outing for the kids.
What To Do In Every State....Weird Stuff I mean!
Love this! My ultimate goal is to hit off each state at least once in my life. I used to think I would just try the best restaurants in each state but then I saw this and thought how cool would this guide be. How many weird locations have your visited?
The Weirdest Thing Every State Is Extremely Proud Of https://bestlifeonline.com/weird-state-landmarks/
The Weirdest Thing Every State Is Extremely Proud Of https://bestlifeonline.com/weird-state-landmarks/
Friday, June 14, 2019
Enjoy Your Own Company!
Yeah at times it can be lonely but it also gives you a chance to focus on yourself. Focus on your happiness. Be selfish in a way. See some people stay in situations to make other people happy. Eventually you suffer. No need to suffer in this lifetime. Deep down when you’re happy everyone else can be happy around you.
Sorry...Not Sorry!
Raising girls today verse the past is completely different. What past generations of woman have been taught as having limitations of what we can’t do or not handle has completely changed. Gender role no longer is present. We are all capable of the same things. We all should not tolerate anything that doesn’t do us justice, for our mind, body or souls.
Proud Moments...
Yesterday was filled with graduation after graduation. My oldest and youngest both graduated and it’s funny my pre k graduating actually made me cry verse my oldest. Maybe it’s that sweet innonce that you realize changes in time. Not in a bad way. Just different. The sticky kisses and random hugs change. That they become an individual that still needs you but has an opinion of stuff. Just reallly hit my heart.
My oldest received an award for High Honors and I must say it made me proud to say that no matter what happens in life. No matter what you go through. Your kids are number one no matter what. Your role is to make sure they are good people. They push themselves to accomplish what they are capable of and being there for them always.
Congrats to all your children who graduated or moved up to the next grade and level in life. I hope they find success in their journey.
Wednesday, June 12, 2019
Are You Happy?
A friend asked me. I usually say yes but this time I said no. Let me explain.
As humans we tend to focus on the negatives in our life verse the positives. Right?! Yes I am right. So honestly am I happy with my life...90% yes. There’s 10% missing and that 10% actually made me say no.
Crazy right!
So why say no? Because it’s ok to not always make it seem like life is perfect and great. We all know we can’t have perfect lives. That’s not real at all. We all have some pain and void. We all want to make our lives better.
If that 10% was filled would I be the happiest person in the world. Probably not. Let me explain.
Life everyday is a challenge. We wake up and go to bed. In between we are faced with noise, problems, emotions, things that trigger us. I, You, anyone. Can’t possibly ever be 100% happy.
My life is 90% happy. That’s huge! Yet that 10% occupies a big part of my brain. A void. But I can say that I won’t allow that 10% to take the best of me. I can say I will do anything in my power to be as close to 100% happy as possible so next time someone asks you if you’re happy it’s ok to tell them how ever you’re feeling in that moment.
Apple & Honey Detox Blend
Apple & Honey DIY Colon Detox Remedy
Ingredients:
A cup of water, filtered
A tbsp of organic honey
A tbsp of chia seeds
A tbsp of flaxseed
One apple, peeled and sliced
Blend together and drink.
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Bugy’s Dueling Pianos Friday Night
“Bugys’s Dueling piano bar is a Speakeasy-style lounge with an amazing Roaring 20’s decor focused on great ambiance, classic cocktails, finger foods and Great shows from our musicians/entertainers.”
I have been wanting to go here for months and finally said to a girlfriend let’s go this weekend. Excited to check it out. Slowly checking off places on my bucket list. What places have you been wanting to checkout?
Why Are You Really Upset? What Triggered You?
It’s normal but not always ok. It’s ok if you realize I was triggered. It’s not ok when you can’t find the connection and correct it.
It happened to me. A song triggered pain. A song. Then a conversation. I got upset and then had to refocus. Obviously I haven’t heal for a simple song or a conversation with an old friend to cause such a reaction in me. But acknowledging it is progress and growth.
I can go on about what I felt but reality when you feel pain you give emotion or situation that gave you pain control. Don’t allow that. Don’t allow anyone to have control over you or your emotions. Don’t show a side of yourself that you don’t even know or like.
Be responsible for yourself and your own healing.
Happiness Is An Everyday Choice
Daily reminder. You have to overlook everything you have been through and keep saying “I want to be happy and that’s my only goal.”
Tuesday, June 11, 2019
Happy Taco Tuesday...Bar Taco
A friend put me on to this bowl and now whenever I go I get it. The pork belly bowl at Bar Taco is delicious. Sweet with a hint of heat. Pairs perfectly with their Margaritas. So it’s not a Taco but it’s close enough. How are you celebrating Taco Tuesday?
Live Your Best Life
Are you living your best life? If not, I hope you do!
I have been looking up some activities to join like local Meet Up Groups and adult camps just to get out and meet people and try different activities. Then ironically I had a friend from high school I used to be really close with reach out to me. He was looking for people to join his Co-Ed summer team. Sign me up I said. We began to talk about life and how things have been. He and I are friends on social media so he asks “What else have you been up to besides living your best life? It’s great to see all you’re doing and you’re happy.”
I laughed and then I thought about it. I only post about family or my kids on my social media platforms. Nothing about dating or my personal single life. I keep people out of that part of my life. His comment stayed with me. He was right. I really am living my best life.
And I know social media makes everything look like rainbows and sunshine. It’s really a fake upfront cover up but luckily behind the scenes I do have a great life and should be nothing but happy and grateful for it.
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