Mommy CT: 07/18/19

Thursday, July 18, 2019

Life Lessons...Learn From Them!

Learn from it all...they are all teaching us something. Heartache means you loved. Tears means you can feel.

Holding back means you lost trust in someone, you don’t want to open up to again. Your soul may be tired and knows to protect itself. You aren’t ready to give them what they think they deserve. Or maybe they aren’t the person you want to give your love to. Maybe they aren’t worthy and that’s ok too.

Pulling you close to someone means you’re not ready to let go and you’re holding on for a reason.

There’s all these things that build us up. Teach us. Help us grow. Help us find peace with ourselves. It’s all a process. A growing process. Don’t fight it. Learn from it. ❤️

Feel Good Song: Steal My Sunshine

💛 Be someone’s sunshine. There’s nothing better than that.

Embrace The Lessons

Embrace the lessons and learn to stop giving your love away to people who may not deserve it or appreciate it.

Love Yourself...Everyone Else Is An Added Bonus

The power of the universe is when it shows you so much when you couldn’t see it yourself. When your mind isn’t clear or your brain is preoccupied. The universe brings people into your life to see things for what they really are.

What you need. What you don’t see in yourself. It’s magical. Love yourself. That’s all you need. Anything else or anyone else is an added bonus.

Feel Good Song: You Get What You Give

Don’t Lose Yourself In The Process

Remember This: When Love Is No Longer There

You can’t force someone to have you in their life or love you or choose you and it’s hard to hear but sometimes we need to remind ourselves. It’s also hard to admit but it’s true.

I get it. I do it too. Alot. I hold on much longer than I should. I am slowly working on that.

Love is magical. It’s a high. It’s feeling like nothing in life can bring you down. Any stress magically seems manageable. It’s an escape. It’s fun.

Then it changes. Somewhere along the way it’s no longer what it was. You tend to hold on because you remember those magical times but then things get hard. Sad. Lonely. It’s hard even writing this for some reason. But it’s true.

It’s letting go when one person wants out. It’s letting go when there isn’t equal effort. It’s letting go when all you’re holding on to was the past. It’s letting go when one person is ok not having the other person in their life anymore. It’s letting go when you’re ok knowing that person will end up with someone else and that fact no longer bothers you.

Yep!

You gotta learn when to let go and hardest part learn to accept when someone has let YOU go.

Letting Go Is An Everyday Goal!

You wake up and say today’s a good day. Then something hits you. A song. A word. Something. And it sets you back. Reminds you. You have to restart again at that exact moment. Right there you start again the process of letting it go.

It’s ok. It takes time. You got this. I got this. ❤️