Friday, July 26, 2019
Positive Changes Ahead
*cosmicgoddess
A hopeless romantic...a seeker of happiness. Accept yourself. You may have lost yourself along the way but welcome back. Never change. Be who your core wants you to be. 💗
I Scream You Scream We All Scream For...
We can’t come to the Cape and not get ice cream at Four Seas. It’s the BEST. I had to get it. Vacation is a cheat time even if it may mean paying for it later.
I get my classic sundae...black raspberry ice cream with hot fudge and peanut butter sauce. An old time favorite. Their peach ice cream is also a fan of ours.
What’s your favorite ice cream?
What A Year Can Do To A Person
I couldn’t sleep. Maybe out of pure excitement to get to relax. Ironic right. But I started to think about how my life was a year ago at this exact time I was at the Cape and the stories and people who were in my life at that time. The journey I have been on since. The changes that took place in my life.
It’s actually pretty crazy. How many people I met. Love I felt. Hurt I felt. Pain and experiences that actually shaped me. The new places I went to. Where I traveled. Who I spent my time with. Memories I made. Lifestyle changes. It’s actually pretty remarkable.
Do it. Think about the past year. How much your life has changed. The new people who are in it now. The old people who are no longer there. The memories you made. The tears you shed. The laughter you had. The wtf moments. It all shapes you.
How things made you feel. How you looked. What progress you made. All in just one year.
Think about the things you wouldn’t repeat but no regrets because you know it’s part of our path. The things we wish we did and didn’t do. The things we got through that we didn’t think we could getthrough. The friendships you made. The amazing people who loved you and still do. The people who helped you get through some rough patches.
I am definitely at a better place. Mentally. Physically. Emotionally. It’s crazy what a year can really do to a person.
I hope you’re at a better place too!
It’s Ok To Feel But Then What?
What you feel is what you feel. There’s truth in it. You gotta let them come to surface and understand them.
You can be feeling a ton of different things. You can be happy but reserved. You can be scared but excited. You can be hurt but hopeful. You just can’t act out on emotion. You can’t be impulsive. You can’t beg for things to go your way.
You can be feeling a ton of different things. You can be happy but reserved. You can be scared but excited. You can be hurt but hopeful. You just can’t act out on emotion. You can’t be impulsive. You can’t beg for things to go your way.
You may want to share how you feel with others but fear rejection. You may fear someone misunderstanding your emotion. Some people dismiss your emotions and honestly that always got me pissed off. You don’t have to agree but to dismiss is not validating.
You also have to understand that you may feel one way for someone and they won’t feel that same way towards you. That’s the kicker. It’s hurtful yet uncontrollable.
I have learned over time that it’s ok to open up. It’s ok to feel something even if someone doesn’t that same way about you. Rejection actually makes you a stronger person. Sucks at first but trust me it helps build your confidence.
You can’t keep things in. It will destroy you. You have to let them come to the surface and deal.
Our ultimate goal in life is to focus on happiness. To be happy deep down. To not let our emotions hide or get the best of us. Do let them come to surface. Understand them. Deal with it. Move forward.
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