Sunday, August 7, 2016
Saturday, August 6, 2016
Boosting Your Morale Just At The Right Time
I Thursday was my daughter's last practice for her summer baseball league. She comes home upset. "He said I can't catch. He kept saying it over and over. I am not playing anymore" She was upset over a teammate remarks. "It's ok honey. You can't expect to catch everytime but you do hit everytime. So let's work on your fielding". She was in that mood that was no breaking.
She has that type of personality that when people say she can't do something she second guesses herself. Like maybe they are right. Maybe I am not good enough. Sometimes this actually motivates people. When people say you can't you prove them wrong. Not this case.
I started to look into a different league. Not to protect her from this but for her to see what it's like to be on a different league. I looked into an all girls league. The coach emailed me back. Fall Ball is made up of 5-8 year olds. She currently plays with 7-10 year olds with one 6 year on the team who is an amazing player-he's the exception. It would be a step back. I considered it until today's baseball game. Last game of the season...
Bottom of third inning the coach assisting my husband makes an announcement with the play book in his hand. "Everyone I have an announcement" everyone turns and looks at him. My daughter is waking towards me when she hears her name being called. "She's the only one on the team who had NOT strike out ALL season!" I cheered and everyone clapped and said congrats. "Hear that BOYS. She hadn't strikes out ever, she hit every single time she has been up!" Coach T shouted.
She's exactly where she needs to be!
Do Things Your Way...It's Ok To Not Follow The Crowd
We tend to get caught up in a lot of things in life. One big thing is second guessing your decisions. You see and hear a lot as a parent. You think wow maybe I am not doing it right. You read articles: "why yelling is bad" "is your child too entitled" "why sports early on is bad for children" "why being bored is good" and on and on. You can drive yourself bat crazy second guessing your parenting style.
Let me tell you something I learned while being a parent to different age groups "LET IT GO"
The one message I loved in the movie "Bad Moms" is that we all suck in a way. I know sounds harsh but there isn't a right way. It's your way and as long as you're giving it your all its all that matters. It's about balance and raising kids to be happy good people. That's it.
I was a different parent when I only had one child. Then a totally different parent when I had two. Now I am a mom to three and kindof threw out all those concepts and realized you have to make decisions by the minute. When things work out and pull together it's like winning victory. There's no better gratification then seeing a positive outcome. As for the not so great outcomes- well you learn from it and then need to move on!
Parents don't have to do what others are doing. Do what you are doing. Afterall no one is really doing it right.
Friday, August 5, 2016
Vineyard Vines Whales For A Cause Back To School Fun
Join the Maritime Center and Vineyard Vines Retailors in this fun cause #WhalesForACause All you have to do is download the template of the whale. Color it. Take pics of it and post on your social media accounts with hashtag #WhalesForACause and Vineyard Vines will donate $1
TODAYS DEAL: On August 5 from 2 - 6 PM, take 10% off* your purchase at select Vineyard Vines locations while Vineyard Vines gives 10% back to The Maritime Aquarium.
RETAILERS PARTICIPATING: Greenwich, New Canaan, Westport, Grand Central, Third Ave., Short Hills Mall
Learn More Here and Dowload Whale Templates to Start Joining In On This Cause. http://suzysaid.com/fairfield/blog/give/c/19225
Thursday, August 4, 2016
Early Morning Beach Days
The benefit of working afternoons and nights is that you get to beat the morning beach rush. It's truly amazing. So relaxing. I have been taking my kids once a week after I drop my 3 yr old off to camp.
The girls play on the playground and then the splash water pad.
It's so peaceful. People are jogging and playground is empty. The sun is warm and there is a light breeze. The girls never fight me to leave. They have their fill of the ocean air and are ready for a morning snack. Truly relaxes me and is a great way to start the day! It's the little things we can do and it doesn't cost a thing! Free, Fun, and Relaxing!
Chores Chores Chores: When Your Child Should Be Doing Them Based OnTheir Age
Chores...the dreaded word children hear and the dreaded tasks parents have to give out. As a child every Saturday my mom made us help her clean the house. It always ended in a screaming match. Whatever task was giving to one child the other fought over wanting to do it. I honestly think the demeanor my mom had triggered our behavior: misery. But seriously since I am with my kids normally until close to bedtime I always encourage them to help around the house. NOT on a regular basis- which I should, but as needed.
Below is a great article that breaks down chores your children should do based on age:
Introduce These Age-Appropriate Chores to Your Kids Just in Time For Back to School http://www.popsugar.com/moms/Chores-Kids-Age-42114265?slide=opening-slide
Wednesday, August 3, 2016
Bad Moms: The Perfect Movie For Moms and All Women
Hysterical in every way. It's scary how much I could relate to this movie. I went last night with 5 moms and we had stomach aches from laughing so much. You don't even have to be a mom to relate to this. It really applies to all women. It's about all the real struggles of being a woman and dealing with other women. If you can,definitely go see it.
Tuesday, August 2, 2016
Play It Forward At Stepping Stones Museum
What a great museum and amazing programs. Now you too can "Play It Forward" but donating. Their ELLI Program is amazing. My daughter participated in it over the summer and it's amazing all she learned at the age of 3. Check it out:
Learn More Here
Calling All Parents With Children Ages 9-13
Toys R Us is looking for the "President of Play" This is an awesome opportunity for your child to have an awesome job trying out toys. If you have a child ages 9-13 then check this out:
Monday, August 1, 2016
Do It All With Your Kids: Stuff Sticks With Them
I don't care if you have boys or girls or mix Family of genders. Do stuff with your kids. Let me rephrase: do EVERYTHING with your kids. I have an amazing group of mommy friends most have boys. There is no restrictions. Bake with your children. Do arts and crafts. Explore the beach for seashells. Dig up rocks and look them up what kind they are. Let them help you in the kitchen AND cleaning up.
Gender labeling is so history. Let that go! It's you the parent that shapes your children.
I love to bake with my girls. I love to have them help me cook. Sometimes I wonder if they will stick with it. Then yesterday we went to a baptism. There was chocolate at the dessert table and baggies to take home. When we got home my oldest daughter hands me a bag of cookies and cream Hershey kisses. She says "Mom I thought we could melt these down and make Oreo fudge!" I could have cried. All those times of baking and cleaning flour off the ground for days all was worth it.
Fudge! Who would have ever thought! But see her mind thought creatively. We melt down chocolate all the time and make bark or cover stuff with it. It teaches them to think outside the box. Normally kids just eat the Hershey kisses. It was a proud moment for me.
Parents there's still time no matter what age your child is. Help them explore there creative side in and out of the kitchen!
Restaurant Week In NYC: July 25-Aug 29th
Restaurant week has turned into Restaurant Month in New York City! This allows plenty of time for YOU to check out some really awesome places. prefix menu $29 for lunch $42 for dinner.
Check out the list of participating restaurants http://www.nycgo.com/restaurant-week
Have Fun With It For A Chance To Win:
"EAT, SNAP, SHARE, REPEAT #NYCRestaurantWeek
Want $50 toward your next meal? Tag your prix-fixe feasts with #NYCRestaurantWeek for a daily chance to win a restaurant gift card."
Sunday, July 31, 2016
What You Accept They Will Accept
This is 100% true. We are all rolemodels
to our children. The type of behavior we display and accept will most likely be the type of behavior they portray and accept.
Learn to fight for what you want your children to fight for. I notice this a lot with myself. I notice things I won't tolerate are things I may let go of in the past before I had children. They will copy you parents. They will turn to the same type of relationships they witness. It's what they know. They will react to situations the same way you react. Be sure to keep this in mind. It's scary but true!
Think about yourself. Did you marry someone like your parent. Is your significant other similar to your parent? Do you react to situations like your parents did?
Saturday, July 30, 2016
Go To Bed With A Smile
At the end of the day you need to be able to go to bed with a smile. Regardless of the decisions you make for yourself or your kids. If you can go to bed happy then all the decisions of the day were worth while.
If you can't then tomorrow is another day to get it right.
Sleep Well My Friends!
The Best Food Trucks in Fairfield County: Did Your Fav Make The List?
The food truck industry has skyrocketed over the past couple of years. Now most of your favorites can be purchased from a food truck. Pizza, tacos, crepes, lobster rolls...Meals on wheels has a whole new meaning.
Check out this fun list. What trucks have you tried? Has your favorites made the cut?
Children Protect Your Heart: The Love Of Baseball
Whenever your child decides to do a sport we would never think it could cost them their life. We think it's encouraging team building, social skills and benefiting from Exercise but their life never.
My daughter's favorite position is catcher. A couple of games I had parents come up to me and say wow did you freak when that bat came near her or thank goodness that ball did bounce back. It does make me a little nervous. At her last game a ball popped up and hit a kid in his chest. He was fine but I told my husband I was starting to get nervous and wanted her to wear more protection especially for her heart. He told me they have shirts with padding gear to protect the upper body.
A store in our area was going out of business I go and find a "heart protector" this shirt has a shield in it to protect the heart. A few days later I received an article from the Babe Ruth Baseball Little League that a child went into cardiac arrest after a ball bounce up and hit side of his heart. It's every parent's nightmare. What is suppose to be a fun, team building, experience could turn tragic ending. Luckily the boy end up getting out of the coma and survived thanks to a brave teammate who performed CPR as soon as injury happened.
Parents protect your kids. There is gear out there for under $50 that will safe their life. Accidents happen. No one is to blame. But it's our duty as parents to do whatever we can to keep them safe.
Friday, July 29, 2016
Free Admission Dates and Days for Zoos, Museums, Gardens & More in NYC
Let's face it sometimes it too hot to do something outside. Check out this awesome list by NYMetro Parents of places to go to for FREE. Yep the four magic letters that makes parents happy!
The Bronx Zoo – General admission is free on Wednesdays. Visitors are asked to donate what they wish to support the zoo’s mission. Total Experience activities cost extra.
Brooklyn Botanic Garden -Free all day on Tuesdays and Saturdays from 10am-noon. Free on winter weekdays November-February.
Brooklyn Children’s Museum - Free Thursday afternoons from 2-6pm.
Children’s Museum of the Arts - Pay-what-you-wish Thursdays, 4-6pm.
Children’s Museum of Manhattan - Free the first Friday of every month, 5-8pm.
Thursday, July 28, 2016
Stepping Stones Get In For Free August 6 2016
Beat the heat and check out Stepping Stones Children Museum in Norwalk. Always filled with creative and educational fun for kids of all ages.
Thursday Night August 6th is Get In For Free. Check out all their upcoming events:
To learn more visit their website: http://www.steppingstonesmuseum.org
Wednesday, July 27, 2016
Lesson In Life
It's sad to know how true this is. But look at yourself and then look at those around you. Whether intentionally or unintentionally this will happen. I have done it. You have done it. Those we love have done it to us and others. What we really need to focus on is not repeating the same mistakes. Be good to others and they will be good to you. 
Pancakes 3 Ways, Let's Get Creative
What's for Dinner? I had no clue. Was just me and the two little ones so figured what's fun and easy to make: Pancakes. Of course I needed to add a twist: Three Ways! Plain, Banana and Blueberry! Now here's the secret twist for the Banana and Blueberry add cinnamon and sugar to batter.
Here's what I do:
Mix any pancake mix you like. I use bisquick. Divide the batter.
Add cinnamon and sugar mixture (equal parts of each in a container, I always have this in the cabinet) to one bowl with regular batter. Other batter keep plain and use for making plain pancakes.
Now divide cinnamon mixture batter into two bowls. Mash two bananas in one bowl. Pour half cup of blueberries in the other one. Pancakes will look lumpy but cook on low heat and will come out perfect.
Start pouring and flipping. Amazing.
I serve with whip cream and syrup. The banana pancake taste like a banana foster. They are super filling. I can not eat more than one. The blueberries in the blueberry pancakes pop in your mouth. Delicious! Enjoy!
Creative Minds: Let Your Children Use Their Imagination
“I like nonsense, it wakes up the brain cells. Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living; it’s a way of looking at life through the wrong end of a telescope. Which is what I do, and that enables you to laugh at life’s realities." Dr. Seuss
Tuesday, July 26, 2016
Best Water Balloons EVER!!!
I bought these last week for a play date at my house. It is the coolest concept ever!
Hook up to a hose.
Once they fill turn off water.
Shake over a bucket and they tie automatically.
So fun and easy!!!
Buy ZURU Bunch O Balloons on sale now at Walmart and Toys R Us.
Monday, July 25, 2016
St. Ann's Feast This Weekend
This is a fun Italian Festival located right off exit 16 on I95 in Norwalk CT. Great food. Fun crowd. Be sure to check it out and grab a pizza fritte. Yum!
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Sometimes Having A Strong Voice Isn't A Bad Thing
"I need you back on the committee. I won't ask too much of you but need you to back me up. Your voice is my stronger and louder than mine."
This is the text I received a couple of weeks ago from a friend. We had a strong committee that fell apart once the leader wasn't being supportive. Why do good if no one was appreciating it. We all got burnt out and took a year off. Now that the leader is gone and change is taking place my friend is rallying up the crew again.
"My big, strong mouth gets me into trouble at times. But I can't a position but will be more involved and help. I promise." Was my response.
I wanted to take a position. I wanted too. But with work busy and having two kids in school in the Fall. I just can't. I need to make other things a priority. It did feel good to have her think my aggressive strong voice could be put to good use. Which as I have grown I try to aim for that.
I have learned through years to control it. To think before you speak. Actions cause a reaction so if you are going to fight for anything be sure to be passionate about it 100%. Like 100%. I have voiced my opinion across this committee and others to do with my children education and sports. When you see them implement that change it makes you believe that Speaking Up Does Matter!
So if you too like to share your opinion and have a strong loud voice. Not ones that insult others or try to give someone a bad rap. But one that makes people think and take your input into consideration. Then don't change! There will always be a team rooting for you!
Sunday, July 24, 2016
Fun Craft With Paper Towel Rolls
I love doing crafts and I have been collecting toilet paper and paper towel rolls for our fireworks craft I posted last month. We have a ton and I found this new fun craft on Pinterest.
Castles! Perfect for my girls. My goal is to attempt this week. What crafts do you recommend to do with empty rolls? Let me know and I will test them out with my girls.
Stop Chasing The "Joneses"
I see this a lot now that my daughter is older. Parents and peers trying to keep up with competition. Doing and following what other families and parents are doing and saying and I personally want NO part of it.
I don't do well with competition. Growing up I was never a jealous or competitive person so the minute I feel an urge to compete or someone is competing with me I back away and detach myself from that person. It brings out the ugly in people and personally doesn't make me feel or look good.
So being a parent can suck sometimes. I get it. Your children start to compare themselves to others and want what others have and personally I don't see it a lot in my kids yet because my husband and I don't do it. Parents stop trying to keep up with the "Jones". Stop trying to be something you are not. It's ok to NOT follow the pack. It's ok to live within your means. It's ok for your kids to not have and do what other families have and do. It's life. They will learn the lesson now or later.
Vacations. Trips. Gear. Toys. Give it up. We can't always do what others do so don't expect to copy and do it.
The number one reason couples fight is money. It ruins marriages. It's hard to avoid it. Trust me I know. But if you're neighbor is doing something and you can't let it go. Stop competing with yourself. People see through it. Be you. It's ok.
I have a strong fun mommy group of friends. We are always pushing advice and tips and suggestions to one another. We have different level of incomes and careers. We have NO competition. We praise each other. We hurt when someone hurts. It's real. We don't always agree and it's good. Find those types of friends and peers. Those are the type of friendships you need in your life.
Saturday, July 23, 2016
Change Your Thoughts! Being Positive Brings Positive Things To You!
My goal this year was to get more clients and hire more help. All of a sudden things started to happen and fall into place. Two months ago my work load increased. I was off on Wednesdays and working nights to make up for it and it wasn't enough to do what had to be done. After taking on another client I knew I needed more time and wanted to give up nights. I posted on a mommy site and an hour later had a name for a babysitter. Ironically I went to school with her children. A week later she came by and started. She's been an amazing addition to my family and help for me.
Then my husband came home said he met a girl who wants to work
from home. She was looking to start her own virtual admin business but needed clients. I took her information and said if I got one more client I would subcontract work to her. Sure enough I got a referral. Client signed agreement and last week started subcontracting work.
I was a bit crabby this week. I walk around the front of my house to do something in back yard. As I walked a breeze came through. I stopped and took it all in. Wow life can be beautiful I said walking inside. From the corner of my eye I see a tag. I reached for it and realized it was the bag of candy I bought my sitter and couldn't find. I was so happy
I researched gifts for my soon to be two year old. I had no clue what to get her. I thought maybe a small trampoline would be fun since they use big ones at our gym class. Today after my daughters baseball game I picked up my little ones at my inlaws and didn't feel like cooking lunch. As we pull up to Wendy's my daughter asked for a frosty. No I said. Then as I ordered I figured why not. She just played baseball for two and half hours in the heat. I ordered three jr ones and drove home. On our side street was a trampoline. No sign. Empty house. I stopped the car. Got out and asked a neighbor was this free and he said yes. Well that just saved me $100.
Now this could all be a coincidence really but man after a crazy beginning of the year everything seems to be back on track to good fun positive outcomes. Change your outlook. Change your life.
I was a bit crabby this week. I walk around the front of my house to do something in back yard. As I walked a breeze came through. I stopped and took it all in. Wow life can be beautiful I said walking inside. From the corner of my eye I see a tag. I reached for it and realized it was the bag of candy I bought my sitter and couldn't find. I was so happy
I researched gifts for my soon to be two year old. I had no clue what to get her. I thought maybe a small trampoline would be fun since they use big ones at our gym class. Today after my daughters baseball game I picked up my little ones at my inlaws and didn't feel like cooking lunch. As we pull up to Wendy's my daughter asked for a frosty. No I said. Then as I ordered I figured why not. She just played baseball for two and half hours in the heat. I ordered three jr ones and drove home. On our side street was a trampoline. No sign. Empty house. I stopped the car. Got out and asked a neighbor was this free and he said yes. Well that just saved me $100.
Now this could all be a coincidence really but man after a crazy beginning of the year everything seems to be back on track to good fun positive outcomes. Change your outlook. Change your life.
We Hit 70,000 Views!
Next month marks 7 years writing this blog and I am so amazed that we hit our 70,000 view Mark!!!
Thank you readers and visitors for coming by and for coming back. I started this 7 years ago when my oldest was only 9 months old. I hope you all enjoy my posts and please continue to come
back. If you have any feedback or suggestions you would like to share please contact me at mommyct2009@yahoo.com
Thanks again from the bottom of my heart!
J
Friday, July 22, 2016
Darien Sport Shop Needs Families For Their Commercial
Ever dream of being in a commericial? Well now may be your chance. I saw this posted on SuzySaid.com website and figured why not share with readers!
What They Are Looking For:
Families to be able to appear together with their children ages 5-13 years old
Groups of women friends - may apply individually as well
Groups of women friends - may apply individually as well
Must be available the week of August 8 for fittings and all day for filming in Darien on August 17. **Compensation will be in the form of product and photography.
Learn More Here and Get Contact Information Who to Submit Images and Info To:
Casting Call for Darien Sport Shop Commercial
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