Take the time you need...We all need time to process stuff and take a time out. I too need a break and need to unplug.
Sunday, August 18, 2019
Who Really Should Be In Your Life
Does someone value you behind your back as much as they do to your face?
You Have To Change Inorder For Life To Get Better
There comes a point where you have to break the cycle. The same arguments the same routine the same tension. You have to break the cycle in order to have change in your life.
Saturday, August 17, 2019
It’s Ok To Be Sad
It’s ok to be sad. Without sadness you would never appreciate happiness. Ride it out. We all have pain at times. Some avoidable some not so much.
Stay Soft Regardless Of Pain You Feel
I wanted to be mad because when I feel pain or hurt I get mad. But I don’t want to be like that anymore. So stay soft. Stay sweet stay kind.
Find Clarity & Clear Your Thoughts
I gave this to a friend not sure why we stopped talking. I gave them to help them through a confusing period of their life. It was to help them find guidance and a sense of direction. They said they were once down it brought them luck.
Healing stones have a magic way of working. I meditate holding them. What stones do you have?
Always Believe In Yourself
Believe in your strengthens . Stop asking questions. Stop wondering why some people don’t act like you want them to. Stop chasing. See things for what they are. Believe in yourself.
Everything Changes & That’s Ok
Are you ever in a situation and think wow so much has changed. 6 months ago. A year ago. Things have changed so much. That you never thought today. This current time. You would be where you are at.
And it’s good and bad and fun and sad. You have to understand things happen in life. The universe will keep teaching you lessons until you listen and get it right.
It will direct you to where you’re meant to be and how your life should be.
Take this time to process. Do know that you can’t fight change. Embrace it.
Respect Everyone’s Space
Respect someone’s space and love them from afar.
I knew a situation wasn’t right. I love how connected at time we can be. I tried reaching a friend and didn’t hear back. I then knew I had to respect their space and time. You have to realize people aren’t always ready to talk. People need to experience their journey. Some need to be alone. To process. Honor their space. Just let them know you’re here if they need you. Don’t take it personal. Sometimes things are best left unsaid.
Friday, August 16, 2019
Always Follow Your Intuition
I kept getting this weird feeling. When something is off but you can’t figure out why. Then it happened. I looked it up online and found what I was getting a weird feeling about. I was shocked but then I thanked the universe because the signs were all there and it took me seconds to see it.
Always follow your gut and intuition. If something is off means it is. What you do with the information is now up to you!
Love Yourself...And Someone Else Too!
Always love yourself. Don’t forget who you are and what you need. We become adapted to a routine. To making ourselves happy. In fear that if we let someone else in we won’t have ourselves anymore.
What we have to realize is that the right person won’t want us to give up ourselves for them. They will just be an added addition. They will make up for a piece of us that is missing. It’s ok to take that risk.
Have You Laughed Today?
The best people in life are the ones that make you laugh even when you don’t want to or when you’re mad or trying to be serious. I have a friend like that. It’s really cool. I didn’t get a chance to have him make me laugh today but normally he does daily.
It’s people like that who help life be fun. Have you laughed today?
Stop Over Thinking
You’re standing in your own way! Your thoughts. Your what ifs. Your insecurities.
I had to think about it. What bothered me this week? My own overthinking. Imagine that? Because I actually had an awesome week. Socially. Work has been so busy. My kids have been super happy. So what has been bothering me? My overthinking.
So silly! I know.
Mom of the 90’s....Guilty Pleasures...
Actually one of my favorite songs. And I bet I would see you all on the dance floor too when this comes on.
What’s Keeping You From Being Happy? I accept the Challenge.
Try it...try being happy for 7 days. Let go of any issues or anger or problems holding you back. A lot of times you will realize that another person or situation causes your unhappiness. That a lot of times it has nothing to do with you but it gets reflected on to you or another person’s words cause unhappiness. That’s YOU allow this to happen.
I challenge you to this. Let’s start the 7-day challenge. Let’s then see what stands in the way of your happiness.
Ready...Set...Go Be Happy!
Maybe We Are Meant To Save Them
Maybe just maybe we aren’t meant to be saved after all. Maybe we are meant to save others. To help them see the light. Love. Happiness. In the littlest things in life. Maybe just maybe you meet someone to save them not have them save you. ❤️
Thursday, August 15, 2019
Feel Good Song: The Scientist
I was putting my oldest to bed. I felt my eyes get heavy. She woke me up. Mom don’t fall asleep you said you had to work. I do. I did. I am swamped and grateful but not enough hours in the day with kids not in camp and trying to grow a business while being a mom. You all know the drill.
So she turns to me and says I know it isn’t easy. Being a single mom and working from home. But don’t fall asleep. You said you had a lot of work to do. I rolled over and kissed her and said thank you. I am happy baby don’t worry. Sleep well and I walked out the door.
It’s not easy. No one’s life is. No matter how good it all looks BUT you have to embrace it. Enjoy the journey. Enjoy what you have been given. I wouldn’t change it. I am happy. I am tired. Have my moments. But I am grateful. No one said it was easy. It never is no matter what path you’re on. As long as you enjoy it. That’s what matters.
Don’t React...Don’t React...
And so it happened yet again. Which I swore I wouldn’t do it. I knew I would react with how the conversation was going and well I did. I know sounds crazy but I have this one friend. Maybe I feel something that can’t be. Maybe it’s his way with words. Who knows but it always has me react and then he makes me laugh and I am ok again. Like within minutes.
We chat all day. Everyday is good and it’s fun. And then bam I say let’s take some space. Maybe it’s me protecting my heart. Silly I know. Because deep down you have to just live day by day and not having this person in my life would actually make me really sad and miss them so I have to just go with it and stop reacting. The thing is once you have been hurt and hurt again you loose trust in situations. You protect yourself but realize you’re really harming yourself instead.
You say I am going to walk away to protect myself and instead end up being embarrassed by your action and know you don’t want this person to not be in your life.
Don’t respond. Just relax. Trust me. If you get hurt so be it. If you don’t then enjoy the company.
Every Story is Different
Your story and mine are completely different. We may have similarities, set backs, heartaches, success stories etc but no two people have the same journey.
We should never judge. Throw it in their face or criticize. You never walked my journey and I have never walked yours.
What I can say is we can support one another. Love one another and spread peace and calmness. We can be there to help make eachother’s journey more magical and safe and adventurous. Create memories. Love with our heart and soul. Be there to help make the chapters as good as they can possibly be. That’s all we can do.
Universe Message: Love Like Crazy
This made me chuckle. Be that hopeless romantic for someone today ❤️
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