And you need to decide what is enough for you
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Barcelona Tapas, Great Vibes,Great Time
Every time we come we have our must gets: Shishito Peppers, Patata Bravas, Scallops and this time we got their NY Strip steak. These tapas are so fun and perfect for two.
I love this place. I love the vibes. We sat at the Bar instead of outside. It’s so pretty. The kitchen is open so you can see them preparing the meals.
We ordered their olive oil cake with olive oil ice cream which is funny because we normally get the crepes and they bring out the crepes and say this is on the house so we got to enjoy both. Was meant to be.
Don’t Chase...You...Stop That Now
So you go through this pattern of thinking a different outcome will happen. I will be honest it won’t.
You have to let go of the idea that you can eventually get what you want from someone. Instead put your energy into finding someone new who won’t second guess you. Who does want to be with you. Who does choose you. I learned this the hard way and at times still torture my own heart but then you meet someone and he makes you remember who you are and what you deserve and well all that time you wasted on someone who didn’t want you will make you be angry at yourself. Don’t be angry. It’s a lesson. And for the guy who wants to be friends after you had a relationship he too is holding on to something. Not sure what but he let you go so let him. Let him let you go so you can move on with your life and enjoy those who want to be in it.
No anger. Not madness just reality. That if a man doesn’t want you do what he wants and let him walk way.
Your Life...It’s Changing
When your heart hurts you seem to ignore all that’s happening around you. You focus on healing yet don’t realize that this whole time people were coming into your life to fill you with love to help heal your pain.
Think about it. It’s true. When you hurt who came in. Who did you meet. Who loved you. Who helped heal you.
It’s really hidden blessings. Appreciate those people not the ones who damaged your heart.
San Gennaro Festival 2019
11 day feast has begun. If you’re thinking of going be sure to go on an empty stomach.
Festival dates: September 12-22
Location: Mulberry Street, Little Italy
Friday, September 13, 2019
Happy Friday The 13th....
A full moon on a Friday the 13th. Not sure what it means but regardless it’s happening! Hope it brings you all luck!
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Love Is A Learning Process
It’s a process. Everything in life is. The good and bad. Highs and lows. All teach you something. Don’t get lost in an idea that things can’t be a certain way. Do understand you can love people and not have them
in your life. Believe that everything always happens for a reason. Remember to be grateful for it all. Never forget who you are in the process and what you deserve. Settling isn’t an option. Regret is not something you should ever have. Everything teaches you something. Trust the process. Enjoy the journey.
Thursday, September 12, 2019
It’s Never Really Over You Just Move On!
Love doesn’t go away. It can’t just disappear. It changes a little. It has to in time. Everything slowly becomes easier to deal with. You become less in pain. Less sadness. Less tears. But you still love someone. They are in your heart and it can suck but you just move on. You have no choice. Alone and sad or move forward.
I have seen it in people. I always wonder who broke them. Who does their heart really yearn for. You can tell. They can’t really give their all to their current partner because a piece of their heart belongs to someone else. Makes you sad for them but they have to move on.
What’s For Dinner...Shrimp Stir Fry From Trader Joe’s
I don’t remember the price of this. I would say between $6.99-$8.99 but was so worth it.
The veggies come frozen and the bag of frozen shrimp are separate in a bag within this. I cooked veggies and shrimp separate incase my girls didn’t want the veggies. It comes with some seasoning but I sauté it in olive oil and added salt. Was delicious. I will definitely purchase this again.
Just Listen...
I had dinner with a girlfriend last weekend who was at a picnic a couple weeks before at a mutual acquaintance house. My name got brought up and my divorce. The girls asked her what happened and my friend came to my defense. None of your business ladies. I appreciated it but learned everyone will tell their side and it’s ok. At this point I don’t even care what people think. I know my kids are happy. I am happy and my ex is happy.
That’s all that people need to know. But it’s normal
to wonder. It’s normal to pry. It doesn’t make it right even though it’s common. I have kids. I don’t need my business to be spread around as to why I ended things with their dad. I still have to deal with my ex and it’s best to keep it between us. He has a job and career and certain things are just not really anyone’s business.
Through my divorce journey I had so much amazing support I was never alone. I mean how lucky can someone be. I had so much family and friends who said I don’t care what happened. I am here for you. Your kids. Whatever you ever need.
I swear I was so lucky and it helped so much. You, we, everyone needs to learn to do the same. Don’t ask questions. Listen. Just say I am here to help. What do you need? What can I do to make the process easier for you?
That’s all we need. That’s all you should do.
It’s a Full Moon Coming...What’s With These Guys?
“I care about you and want to make sure you make wise decisions about who you let in your life. I want to make sure nothing ever happens to you” It was the second person to say this to me this week. What’s with these men I asked myself. Oh full moon. Yep that makes sense.
I appreciate the love guys but no need to worry this girl has it all figured out...well most of the time!
What Can Go Right? Everything!
Forget the rest. Embrace the good. The fun. The happiness. The excitement. The enjoyment. That’s what you focus on!
The Law Of Attraction
What you think. What you stress. What you put out is what you get.
I was talking to a friend. I said everything you have now in your life verse 6 months ago is due to what you put out to the universe. What you let go of, to have today, is what you asked for.
Embrace it or change your thoughts so you can change your results.
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
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