Self-Care Is So Important

What are you doing daily for your own well being? 

It’s so important to make ourselves a priority. I was talking with a girlfriend and I told her new rule at 9:00 every night she needs to have “me time” for herself. She’s off the clock. She’s off taking care of her mom. She is focusing on decompressing. 

I have another friend. He works a lot. All day and nights. I finally asked him when do you have “me time”. He said right before bed. I said that’s crazy and not enough. Do something so you decompress. Sleep isn’t the only thing.  

I love my kids but the rule is bed before 9:00. After 9:00 I am useless to them. I just need to decompress before my own bedtime. 

We all need it. It’s healthy. It helps us function better. It makes us happier. Please do the same for yourself.  

Affirm Your Divine Timing

Awesome Toys& Gift Candy Drive

Bring in your candy and get store credit 

Did You Know Asparagus...

October 30th Love You...All Of You

Who Decides?

Morning Prayer...Happy Wednesday

Believe In Yourself

How Badly Do You Want Something?

I can tell countless stories that resemble this. A Friend who wanted change and had every opportunity for it and didn’t take it. Or people who come along to love and adore you and your mind is stuck on the person who doesn’t. 

Where we wanted change in our life and god presented the opportunities and we over looked them. 

Open your eyes. Sometimes it’s not spelled out but in reality the signs are all there. 

October 29th Enjoy The New Phase of Your Life

Change Isn’t Easy But Necessary

Is Your Glass Half Full it Half Empty

Have you ever been super excited about something and then plans change? Like out of the blue and then spontaneous situations occur. 

That’s my life. 

Not always. But a lot of the times. So the other day a situation occurred where I had made plans a week prior and then things changed mid day. Out of no where. I won’t lie. I was super annoyed and bummed out just because I was really excited about it. 

Let’s back track. Earlier in the day I got asked to stay at a hotel for free since I booked a client retreat there and the lady wanted to meet me so she offered a comp room for me to visit. I then had girlfriends ask to hang out. Another friend asked to hang out. But my focus was on my plans being cancelled. Then my mom offered to cover for me so I could go to an appointment. A lady bug flew in my car. Now picture this. Was my day good or bad?

One may say you were disappointed that your plans got canceled. Plans you were looking forward to. Another would say you got a free hotel room, girlfriends want to come to dinner, you visited a friend, your mom helped so you could make an appointment and not be late, a lady bug flew in your car. 

Um yeah my day was awesome. 

Just because one thing goes wrong doesn’t mean you lose the sight of all that went right. That’s my hope for you all. My hope is you too look at your glass being half full not half empty. I had 5 amazing things happen and 1 disappointed one. Who wins my attention? The 5 all the way!!!

Great article: 

Why Half Full People Live More Fulfilling Lives

https://www.google.com/amp/s/nypost.com/2019/05/31/why-glass-half-full-people-live-more-fulfilling-lives/amp/

Feel Good Song: When We Were Young

October 29th Grow & Evolve

Adulting Tip

So true and so funny!

What To Buy Organic

The More You Understand The Better The Lesson

Are You Happy or Comfortable

What’s Your Heart Telling You?

We all gravitate towards love. Look at your life. Your relationships: current and past. 

Love gravitated you towards someone. The way they made you feel, the way they looked at you. The way they made you laugh. How you can be yourself around them. The fun you have. The way you can tell them anything. They are your best friend. Your souls purpose. 

We can’t love our fake self. We love our true self. We love because someone makes us feel special and good. They make us feel alive. They help us see beauty in things. When they look at us they see our soul.  

That doesn’t have to change. In time lust fades but not love. Your heart still yearns for that person you’re meant to love and have in your life. You still look at them and say you can’t imagine your life without them. 

If it does change. Work on it. If it can’t be fixed move on with your life to make your heart feel love and happiness again.

I am in my search for that type of love because I believe it exists and can remain. I believe we all want love that lasts. Not short term. Not lust. Real genuine care about someone type of love. 

Happy Taco Tuesday

Love Heals

October 28th Keep Believing

More Spooktacular Halloween Jokes

Love these! 👻 

Read more here: https://www.google.com/amp/s/boyslife.org/home/23079/funny-halloween-jokes/amp/

Make Your Dreams Come True

Think it. Receive it. Enjoy it. 💗

Kids Halloween Crafts

I love doing crafts with the girls. We haven’t done as much as I usually do lately so I decided to gather my favorites and will do them with them. These are super easy and fun. You can use the products you have at home. Simple. Easy. Fun. 

Check them out!

https://www.countryliving.com/diy-crafts/g4950/easy-halloween-crafts-for-kids/

Trust Your Intuition

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Don’t Just Wake Up...Live

Live. Don’t just wake up and do the same things everyday. Break up your routine. Add life to your life. Add adventure and love and fun. Wake up smiling. Be excited about your day. 

Always make plans so you have something to look forward to in the future. Whether it’s a date night, plans with friends or a getaway. Do stuff that makes you comes alive. Try a new class. Go to the gym. Try a new restaurant. Take your kids to a festival. There’s always stuff to do to awake your soul. 

When was the last time you felt Alive?

October 28th Turn All The Negatives Around

❤️

The Heart That’s Meant To Love You

Love this! ❤️

Let Go Of The Old

Happy Diwali!

Happy Diwali! Diwali is the five-day festival of lights, celebrates new beginnings and the triumph of good over evil and light over darkness. 

We lit a candle and put it at our front door for good luck for the year. We did it last year and I must say we had an amazing year. The girls grew and matured so much. They made great memories and friendships. Work was amazing. I got to travel a lot. Met some amazing people. Loved. Laughed. Made some amazing memories. 

Cheers to another amazing year ahead of luck, love, great health, life lessons and spiritual growth. 

Happy Diwali!

October 27th Don’t Let Anything Hold You Back

Self Care Is Important

October 27th Emotional Intelligence

Halloween Sunday Funday

We get together every Sunday for a big lunch. It’s a lot of fun. This week we did a Halloween theme. We all dressed up and celebrated Halloween together. 

The cousin get to play. The adults get to hang out and catchup on life.

My sister always makes an awesome dessert. It’s a great time and gives us an opportunity to stay close. 

It’s fun to dress up and get into character mode. What’s your favorite Halloween costume?

Why Not...

But...

Let go of that. Just enjoy it. No over thinking. No second guessing. Enjoy the why not!

October 27th Trust Your Own Heart

Spooktacular Halloween Jokes

Love these!! 🎃 

Read more here: https://www.google.com/amp/s/boyslife.org/home/23079/funny-halloween-jokes/amp/

Women Don’t Ask For A Lot

We don’t need the world. We don’t. Well most of us don’t. We just want to feel confident in our companion’s world. You know like “the only girl in the world.”

When was the last time you felt like that? 

She’s Beautiful...Within

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Happy Sunday Funday

The Notebook...

I watched this tonight. Not my first time. Probably my fourth or fifth. Every time it’s like a fairytale. The truth of love and trials and ups and downs. That of two people are meant to be together they will be. That there will be highs and lows but in the end everyday they choose eachother. 

Who is living a fairytale? I had dinner with a friend last night and I said it’s so sad so many people are feeling “stuck” in a situation. That so many people decide the rest of their life’s have to be a certain way and they have to be ok with it and just deal. 

It doesn’t have to be that way. In life you let go of situations. You move on. You fix yourself so you can be happy and you risk letting people go not knowing if it’s goodbye forever or not. 

We all have our ups and downs. We all have our what ifs but what if I asked you if you’re happy. If you’re in a situation because you want to be or because you’re stuck and have to be. What would your answer be?