A year ago everything was different. A year from now everything will be different.
Enjoy the process.
Friday, January 24, 2020
We Give Back What We Get
This can be interpreted however you like. I look at it as the this phrase “do good but don’t expect good to come back to you from that same person you were good to.” Meaning if I do good to one person that person may not return the favor or gestures. But someone else will. So that’s why we do good and help people and love because someone is giving it back to us but we get upset because we expect the person we are giving it to will give it back to us. That’s not the case.
It’s repaying the favor because you want to not necessarily to the person who gave you a favor or helped you.
I have seen it over and over. Example I care for my kids when they are sick. I don’t expect them to care for me but someone else will.
Another example giving your love and guidance and help to someone thinking it will make your relationship better but they turn around and use that advice and help nourish another one of their relationships.
It’s a cycle. Karma comes back to you in a different way and form.
Just believe doing good and helping and healing and guiding people means you will get that back too one day from someone. ❤️
It’s The Small Things That Add Up
Women how many of you would agree? It’s the small sweet gestures that make a difference. Men should know by now. Doesn’t make much to make most women happy. 💜
Moms We’re All A Mess
This week routine has been so off and by today I am just depleted. Being a working from home mom means whenever no school or sick pressures are on me. Not really sure how that fits but it is the current case which I am working on changing. So you try to juggle it all. Luckily some plans changed over the weekend and I am looking forward to catching up on sleep and missed work emails.
Moms don’t get the credit we deserve. Hell sometimes we look for it from the wrong people. But don’t let it discourage you. Be sure to make time for you. Even if it’s a nap or in bed early. You too deserve a break.
Thursday, January 23, 2020
The Spiritual Journey Is About Honoring Your True Self
What’s your true self? Do you even know.
We get caught up on life that we lose ourselves along the way. We just ride through life. Just another day. No. That’s not life.
Take a step back. Look within at your true self. Your core. I know mine. She’s free. A free spirit. She’s happy and flowing and doesn’t let little life problems get to her. Am I her...I want to be. Noise and situations occur constantly to block her from coming out. It’s my job to work through them so she can come out.
What about yours? What’s blocking your true self?
The spiritual journey is being at peace with yourself. Not blaming others. You control your own life. You have control over how you react to situations.
The best thing to happen to me was to be alone. I am happy in my own company. You have to be. Then maybe one day you can make room for someone else but for now seek peace and work on it. Enjoy your time.
How Life Is Like A Party
I love this. Probably the most accurate thing I have ever read. To those in your life you help you clean the mess- love them. Love them for helping you through some dark times of your life. For encouraging you and bringing you guidance. To help you be your best self.
I have had some shitty moments in my life time. As have you. I am forever grateful for the people who helped me get out of them. They are truly my people. Be grateful for your people. ❤️
Jan 23rd Accept and Release
I want to clarify something. Repeated bad behavior towards you isn’t acceptable. Yeah those in past who didn’t know better who hurt you yeah forgive them. Release them.
Those who continue to repeat control or anger or manipulate you don’t deserve your forgiveness. They do need your prayers to heal their heart for you. Usually means they have pain inside or a broken heart or anger for a reason. I get it. I understand. But after years of trying to be civil with someone it’s not your duty to tolerate it.
You don’t need to tolerate anything that doesn’t make you feel good. Remember that.
So....This is Life...Nothing Stays The Same.
At first I said out loud “Well Damn” reading this but it’s sort of true right. We date the wrong people so we appreciate the right one when they come. We have bad relationships and friendships so we end up cherishing the good ones. It’s all lessons. Life lessons.
“Experiences make you unique!”
I do love that. It is true. I am not who I was. You are not who you were. Our experiences shapes us. Made us tougher and stronger. Love differently. Laugh at things that once made us cry or weak.
I now accept the challenge instead of fear them. If it means I can be happier then bring it. Why not!
Embrace every moment. Embrace every loved one. Every friendship. Every relationship. Nothing stays the same.
Mindlessness...Embrace It
Think of where you are today. You weren’t in the same place last year. Even if things were easier or better or you were happier then you have to embrace the now. You have to realize that nothing stays the same.
You have to know that things can get better. That you can be happy again and try to live in the now. Because the now doesn’t stay the same forever.
Wednesday, January 22, 2020
Break Your Routine & Cycle
We all have been there. When we lived but didn’t live. We just sort of got by. It was a blur. You have to get out of that cycle.
You Got This Girl....
After years of trying to escape a situation that just seems like it just keeps reoccurring can be so draining and discouraging. It’s when you use your brain verse emotions that you can get things done and taken care of.
Never forget who you are. No matter who is trying to bring you down. Never let someone always try to get the best of you. 💗
One Day...Isn’t That What Relationships Are About?
And I will love his little annoying habits too...because that’s what a partnership is. Right? It’s the good. Bad. Ugly. But let’s also draw a line....
It’s about respect. Treating eachother kindly. Bringing out the best in eachother. Having the ability to communicate. Not being aggressive or moody or hurtful or toxic or projecting. It’s to talk through the triggers.
Know the difference.
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