Saturday, May 30, 2020
Friday, May 29, 2020
Embrace What Is...
I wasn’t doing this. I kept thinking things should be different. When I was thinking that way I wasn’t fully enjoying the experience. My current life. My journey.
I then accepted it. Do you know what happened when I accepted things for what they really were?
I was happy. I enjoyed the situation more. I accepted it. Life got better and easier. It is a process I have to continue to work on and accept but when I do it’s so much better. I am happier. I am not trying to change it. I embrace it. It is what it is and that’s ok.
I want you to do this too. I want you to stop always trying to change things and accept it.
What Do You Really Need To Hear?
Let’s be real. We normally don’t like the honest friend yet we NEED the honest friend. The one who tells us what we need to hear not want to hear. Then the decision is up to YOU.
Respect. Honor. Embrace. The people in your life who don’t always paint your fairy tale image but love you no matter what.
Thursday, May 28, 2020
It’s The Little Things In Life
This is what life is about. The little moments. The everyday love and fun and laughs. Nature. A child’s laugh. Achieving little goals.
Life is beautiful. Embrace the little moments. The simple pleasures.
Clarity...
I have a friend who asked me about my dating life on our summer vacation together back in 2018. She laughed and said I will pray for you to find clarity. Every time I am a bit uneasy I think of her comment. It still makes me laugh almost two years later. It’s still over the same questions. Confusions. Unsure. Overthinking.
Clarity. When we can think clearly. Where we can see things for what they are not what we want or need or desire them to be.
Be patient. Life isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about enjoying your current state.
Have you found your clarity? If not it’s ok. I am still looking for mine too.
Wednesday, May 27, 2020
Your Healing Is Your Responsibility
We all carry some pain. Hidden down. Some of us do not even know it’s still there until something triggers it. It’s our job to heal. Unbury old wounds. When you do then just maybe then you can be at peace within.
I still have a lot of work to do but this time it’s different in my life. I want to dig deep to really understand why I react the way I do. I have come a long way but we always should be working on ourselves. For ourselves.
A lot people think by now you should be over situations that affected you. I don’t think there’s a time stamp. I think we all need to heal at our own pace. But the key word is heal. To really unbury pain and heal so you can have healthy relationships with yourself and other people. Where your scars can finally heal completely internally.
Tuesday, May 26, 2020
Win Over Your Most Hated Situations
The power to let things be or to let them eat at us. The power to look at a problem and see how small it really is. To look at the positive over the negative. It’s a process. It’s not easy. You do have the power to change things you don’t like. It just takes extra patience.
Different Connections
Have you met anyone who fits in this category? Even friendships can be. It’s when you know someone but not sure how. Or you click so easily it’s like you two have always been in each others lives. Or you keep running into them. Every situation varies. Regardless it’s an amazing connection. Some people stay in your life. Some do not. Some you still feel connected to even from a far. Some break your heart and it’s because you’re connected by your souls not your mind. There are situations where you meet someone at the wrong time of your life. We all have a place for one another. We are all here to love and guide and help one another.
Monday, May 25, 2020
Sunset Grille Is Open
Let’s grab some fish to go. We called one place and it was closed. We then tried Sunset Grille and were super excited to find out they were open. Pina Coladas and wine to go and of course their fried shrimp. It was awesome.
They do have outdoor dining. Social distancing of course. We weren’t comfortable doing that just yet so instead we got our food to go and ate it by the water.
Little treats like these make it really enjoyable and tolerable during quarantine. Even though we are slowly opening up it’s still our responsibility to be careful and take precautions.
Meditation Music
I listen to meditation music almost every night now. It’s really been helpful with resting the Brain. Some music really stands out like this one.
I sometimes put this music on while I am working or during the day. Just relax. Sometimes you need some background music to calm your brain.
Sunday, May 24, 2020
Let’s Really Look At The Situation
I hate to say this because it was a big painful experience but divorce teaches you a lot. Mostly it teaches you that if you can leave a marriage you really can do anything. You really never settle ever again.
When you’re in a situation and are settling you have to take yourself out of the situation and really look at it dead on. For what it is.
You then walk away when you realize you’re settling. You walk away because you remember how strong you were to walk away from a marriage that didn’t work.
Why the hell would you settle now?!
Why the hell would you settle now?!
You can’t fake it anymore. You can’t be ok with something when deep down it’s eating at you. You have to say this isn’t working for me and walk away. I did it once. I did it twice. I can do it again and that’s ok. Because this is YOUR life. Your fairy tale. There’s no settling. There’s pure happiness. If it’s not you walk away because you’re strong enough to. You walk away because you can’t pretend everything is ok anymore when it’s not.
Saturday, May 23, 2020
Feel Good Song: If The World Was Ending
Beautiful and brings up past thoughts and situations. They say don’t look back. Reality is they are right. You should always look forward in life. Past can’t change. What’s meant for you will be.
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