Tuesday, November 24, 2020
If You Knew Would You Walk Away
We always live as if things are forever so when they change it’s hard to cope with. What if you knew nothing was forever. That things would eventually change and go away. How would you handle it? Would you let it go? Would you never allow yourself to experience it because you know it would end?
I toy with this. A lot.
No one knows what tomorrow will be like. I never thought after 20 yrs I would get a divorce. Looking back I say I wouldn’t change it. It was part of my path but what if today I knew a relationship may not be forever. Would I avoid it all together or embrace it and be in the moment?
Because heartbreak is awful. Death. Job loss. Breakups. We all have had heartbreak is some form. Does it mean we let it go and not enjoy it before it even ends?
I don’t have that answer. I would say live in the moment because we know all things eventually come
to an end. I would say living is the middle. Not the beginning or ending but middle.
But when you know heartbreak is coming is it ok to stay on for the ride? I don’t know. I don’t know if temporary gratification is worth healing from. Do you?
Monday, November 23, 2020
Sunday, November 22, 2020
How Do You Need To Be Loved?
Back to love languages and I tell you I do believe it helps basic needs. It helps you know what people need. Are there more things yes. Of course.
But are you even aware of what YOU need?
Relationships are growing stepping stones. They teach you a lot and you learn about yourself too. It’s not about changing who you are with it’s taking the time to understand them but you must understand yourself first.
Learn more in Jay Shetty’s video
Saturday, November 21, 2020
What’s Holding You Back?
I once had a friend who always questioned what if. What would people think. What would people say. What if I regret my next step.
I know he’s in the same place. Same mindset. Same state of confusion. Not at peace. Not happy. Feeling stuck.
For what? What was gained?
When do you say it’s my life. My decisions. My risks and changes.
No one could push him. Or you. Or me. Or anyone. We are in control of our life and peace.
Nov 21st
Make that step towards your goals. Don’t let anything get in your way. Don’t allow yourself to get in your own way. No self doubt. No triggers. No insecurities.
That’s not allowed.
Thanksgiving Tips
Just kidding. It’s Thanksgiving in 2020. Please pour gravy on everything, including the pumpkin pie. We all deserve that!
Who or What Keeps You Calm?
Work has finally picked up. Homeschooling three kids has become easier. I notice I started to juggle everything with ease. Yeah took a while but better late than never.
At dinner I mentioned it to my boyfriend. I said not sure what has changed but I am extremely calm amongst the chaos. It’s weird more chaos has started but I am fine with it.
Me he said. It’s me.
I paused for a moment and smiled.
You’re right I said. It’s you.
He’s my outlet. My escape. My go to. My vent to. My laugh with. He calms me. He’s super calm. We hang at night for endless hours and it’s my time to decompress.
I have friendships like this too. Where we hang and I feel at ease and relaxed. I cherish those people.
We all need people in our life who do this. Calm us. Make us feel relaxed and rejuvenated.
Do you have these people in your life? If so be with them more. Escape the chaos. Surround yourself with peace and calmness.
Stop running from life and change who you are spending your time with.
What Are You Avoiding?
I did this before. Years ago. I kept busy so I didn’t have to think. Feel. Process. Face my reality. Stay numb. It wasn’t until I fixed what was making me unhappy that I was able to not stay busy and actually enjoy myself. My life. My current state. Face my truths and feelings. Enjoy the calmness.
Don’t do this. Don’t always stay busy because your reality sucks. Because it’s painful to face. Face it. Heal. Move on and forward.
We live in a society where everything is now accepted. There are no excuses to settle. Ever.
Are You Happy?
You aren’t stuck. Not at work or in a relationship. Never think you’re ever stuck but do ask yourself this:
Are you happy?
Friday, November 20, 2020
What’s Your Flow?
What type of flow are you in? Mine is probably the best it’s been in a while. Where systems are in place. Less stress. More calmness. Going with the flow because things in life happen regardless so might as well not let it get to you.
Thursday, November 19, 2020
Focus On Today
Don’t be a prisoner of your past. Don’t worry about tomorrow.
This moment is your life. Focus on that.
Focus On Today
Don’t be a prisoner of your past. Don’t worry about tomorrow.
This moment is your life. Focus on that.
Avoid These Mistakes With Your Mask and Stay Healthy!
I hope you all have stayed healthy and safe. By this time we all know someone who have had the virus or have been exposed to someone and have had to quarantine.
People close to me have had to quarantine. A really close friend of mine caught it and so did his mother. I found out an old friend of mine had a bad case of the virus but gratefully he healed. An old coworker lost her husband to this virus. The stories go on and on. You have them, I have them. It is real and no where gone yet.
I hope you all remain healthy and safe. Please continue to do your part and wear your mask properly and avoid these mistakes!
Do Opposites Attract?
As you know I am very spiritual. I have met people like me and complete opposite of me. The funny thing is I am so comfortable with who I am I actually love when people put a logic spin on my intuitive side. When they don’t agree or think like me.
I sent this to my boyfriend because this is a perfect example of our relationship. This is us.
Why does it work?
Because we respect eachother. 100%.
We couldn’t be more opposite when it comes to this. We work because we don’t push our beliefs onto one another. He’s very logical. Everything needs to have a scientific spin to it.
I am completely opposite. Everything is very mystical. Everything has a emotional meaning attached.
He is very factual. If it doesn’t make sense then it’s not true. If there’s nothing to back it up he isn’t falling for it. Science is his answer to anything spiritual. Economics and science. Two of my least favorite subjects.
Why does it work?
Because I am open to his truth. I respect it and don’t down talk him because he doesn’t think like me. He is open to my belief and respects me for them. My healing stones and reiki and salt cave and signs. Does he believe in them not like I do but he is willing to give them a try. Some things he has enjoyed. Some he laughed off.
Why does it work?
Because no two people are alike. But when you love someone you communicate and that is something we are both really great at. Communication. We are both completely intune with our emotions and triggers and talk about anything and everything.
Unlearn What You Have Learned
When you notice a pattern or trend and it’s not working for you it’s best to take a step back. You must unlearn and relearn again.
Everyday I am learning more about myself. I am learning my patterns. I am learning how I love. How I handle situations. If there is something I do not like I must unlearn it and rewire myself again.
Tuesday, November 17, 2020
You Don't Ever Have To Feel Stuck!
This will happen at one point in your life. When you cross this path you have to make a decision. A life changing decision. When you get to this point you need to be brave enough to let go of the life you built and build something new. Better. Easier. Happier.
The new change will be scary at first. Exhilarating, and unsure. But then something happens. You get this wave of calmness. Peace. Happiness.
You become really strong.
You may need to be alone or exclude certain people. Everything is like a new start.
I promise you every time things get hard you remember how hard the life you left behind was. That is your encouragement to keep moving forward. That brings you peace and comfort and strength to move forward.
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