Saturday, March 6, 2021
Talk It Out...Don’t Hold On To It
Communication is a relationship destroyer. We aren’t taught to talk about what bothers us. We feel an emotion and can’t translate it into words. So what happens...
It builds up. We hold it in. We begin to sink. Our relationship fails.
You have got to give yourself the opportunity to understand your emotions. Not point blame but really understand what emotion is being triggered. Then communicate it. Discuss it. Honor it.
Years and years I keep hearing the same thing...we didn’t know how to communicate. Yeah it takes two but really how can you even have a relationship with someone who you can’t tell them what’s bothering you. So what if they get upset. You need to discuss it or you hold on to it and years go by and it’s too late.
I have no emotional attachment to my divorce because I hold no resentment or anger. Why. Because I told him how I felt. Always. I didn’t hold on to it. Once it was done it was done.
Once a relationship starts to shift it’s your responsibility to adjust it back into place.
Friday, March 5, 2021
Change...What’s Your Power Word Of The Month
Changing old habits. Changing the way you respond to things. Changing who you allow in. Changing being the go to. Changing things in your life that no longer bring out your highest good.
Change isn’t bad. It teaches you a lot more than staying the same.
Sometimes Things Just End
There doesn’t always have to be a juicy story. This happens in friendships too. Things can just end and well truth be told maybe just maybe you deserve a lot more than that.
We all have different people in different chapters of our lives. Nothing stays the same.
Thursday, March 4, 2021
March Fourth
Achieve your goals and desires. Don’t let anything stand in your way.
Not only today but everyday!
Wednesday, March 3, 2021
You Never Know How Much Something Can Change Your Life
Have you met that year yet?
I think I have a couple of times. I still think I have a lot to learn and achieve and I think every once in a while someone leaves my journey to teach me something too.
I think we never know how important some lessons are. How we wouldn’t be who we are without change. How if everything always remained perfect we would never appreciate it that is why we have hard days.
Tuesday, March 2, 2021
Are You Aligned With Who You Are?
The one truth with divorce is you learn to let go of anyone or anything that isn’t aligned with who you are. How they make you feel.
I have walked away from a ton of people and situations that weren’t aligned with my highest good. If you don’t make me feel good I can walk away and not look back. I appreciate my time we had and our journey but I won’t continue to have you in my life.
When you walk away from a marriage you will walk away from anything else. It’s not selfish. It’s being true to your core. It’s learning to not holding on to things that aren’t good for you. It’s breaking free toxic or bad or uncomfortable situations.
I always give everyone my all. Always. But when it’s not reciprocated I learn to walk away.
Monday, March 1, 2021
Happy 8th...
She’s turns 8 today. I always have a hard time explaining how amazing she is because I don’t believe anyone is perfect. But she really is my easiest one. She’s independent and quiet. She is loving and calm. She’s a free spirit and showers me with love and kisses and hugs. She doesn’t require a lot just be sure to keep your word with her. She can hold that against you.
She always was mysterious. I never understood how she wouldn’t react to things I expected her to. She came into my life when I had cancer. A failed pregnancy glucose test led me to a specialist that discovered my cancer. She saved my life. It’s a lot of pressure on someone who wasn’t even born yet. But all jokes aside I delivered her and then a month later had surgery. Then three months later was in quarantine from my radiation. Imagine spending all that time away from your baby. It was so hard yet grateful that I was able to recover and live a long healthy life.
They say we have a special bond due to that. You have a special bond with all your children for a reason. This was my reason with her. I healed while I watched this gorgeous baby grow up.
Sunday, February 28, 2021
Have A Blessed Day...
We celebrated today at Sunday Lunch my daughter’s birthday. She turns 8 tomorrow. It was a great day. I started off with serving her and her sisters breakfast in bed. Then we had a celebration at lunch with my parents, sisters and my boyfriend.
At night time we ordered pizza. The young delivery guy hands me my food. I pay him. And say thank you. He turns to me and says have a blessed day.
At that moment I froze and smiled. Oh I did I wanted to say. But instead I said you too. I did have a blessed day. How lucky am I to have such a great life. How lucky am I to be able to give my daughter a loved and fun filled day for her birthday.
I wish you all a blessed life. To enjoy the simple things. To have love in your life and flow around you at all times.
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