I only knew one guy you didn’t have social media and it was pretty amazing and impressive. Like a mystery as to how he is or what he’s doing.
Sunday, January 5, 2020
Social Media Humor
I only knew one guy you didn’t have social media and it was pretty amazing and impressive. Like a mystery as to how he is or what he’s doing.
It’s About Connecting Spiritually
Let go of past mindset. Connecting with people isn’t about just physical attraction or a physical connection. You need to connect with people on a spiritual level. That’s not easy to do but necessary. You need to be aligned and give your all and then too in order to really embrace a fulfilling relationship. Mental connection. Respect each other. Have a friendship. All these things matter and should be a priority.
Become Aware
Last 10 years was change. Next 10 years is growth. It starts with being aware. Aware with the good and bad. The changes you have to make. Spiritual awakening is good to heal the soul and to achieve growth. We all can do it. Clear your mind.
You need to own some stuff. Your triggers. Your insecurities. And doing it solo can be tough but it’s also ok because you’re not influenced by anyone. You’re really looking within to deal with some unresolved issues. You’re aligning with your true self and true beliefs.
The amazing thing about this process is that you are calm through it which means you’re content and doing the right thing. You’re at peace with the fact that you’re learning, changing and growing. You’re happy. You’re unburying pain and situations to heal so you can fully be happy and let someone in. There’s no space for it yet. In time.
It’s a beautiful thing.
It’s Not You
We think we can change or change them or wait or in time...stop. Release that. No matter what you do you will never be right for the wrong person. It’s not you. It’s just how it is.
Fixing Someone For Someone Else
This...this is something tough to swallow. Helping someone and it benefits someone else. But in life we are taught to learn or teach. Sometimes when you teach you don’t benefit but it’s a part of your journey.
Just learn and keep going...
Imagine All The Firsts...
The good thing about starting again is embracing and enjoying all your firsts all over again and again.
Look back and recall all your firsts with someone. How did it feel? Would you do it the same again?
How exciting to do all those things again. To see how they react or embrace it. The first holiday. The first adventure. The first intimate experience.
Now isn’t that something to be excited about?
What’s Self-Care?
When you’re happy and content you then can enjoy the little things around you. Your kids see you happy. Your family and friends see you happy. Whatever it takes you owe it to yourself to be happy.
There’s A Difference When It Comes To Love
Know the difference. Know when to walk away. Know when to realize what you get from certain people. Honestly when you’re happy with yourself it’s ok to not fight for this. It’s ok to accept people for who they are deep down to their core. Not who you thought they were.
Some people don’t want to be what you need. That’s ok. Choose to walk away. People can be what you need only if they want to be not because you want them to be.
It’s That Time Of Year...
My kids joke about how I always make them wipe their hands when they get in the car after being someplace or making them wash their hands every time they get home but these little tips can help avoid them getting sick.
It’s All About Personal Growth
Being at peace. Looking within and reflecting. How great is it to get the opportunity to be better. Do better. Feel better 💗
Be...
Purely, sincerely, genuinely...truly be a good person. Always. Even when someone doesn’t have the best intentions for you. Even when days are stressful. Even when you may not be surrounding my people who make you feel your best. Still be a good person.
Start Today
Anything that doesn’t bring out the best of you has to change. Stay away from people who don’t bring out the best of you. Start today not for anyone else but yourself ❤️
Years ago I never imagined I would be where I was at now today. With myself. Finding peace within. Years of crap I didn’t cause. Even recently I have to re-evaluate the people I had in my life and make a change.
Change is scary but the rewards...the growth...the peace of mind...that’s priceless.
Saturday, January 4, 2020
Let That Person Go!
I will never ever be....
Fill it in. I could share with you all the dumb stuff I tolerated and put up with but why breathe life into it?! There’s a list of things I will never be again.
But really fill in who you’re letting go of within you.
This Time It’s Different
Believe in yourself. Whatever didn’t work out for you wasn’t meant for you. This time it’s going to be different.
You Have The Right To Feel The Way You Feel
It’s validation. Right? The process of someone acknowledging you feel a certain way. Whether they agree with it or not. We all don’t want to feel dismissed. We all want our feelings to be justified. Even if you don’t agree.
We choose how we feel. I have a friend whose friend always comes to her and asks about me. He always says I hope she knows she not going to get that from that person. It blows my mind. He’s very in tune with me. So she came to me the other day and I said this time I know, this time I stopped everything. She just smiled.
I fought for a long time for people to view how I felt. To validate it. Then I stopped. I confronted people head on. Then it changed. They treated me differently.
We all are a bit of a cry out for help. We all need guidance and support. Sometimes though we look for support in the wrong places and from the wrong people. Some people aren’t capable of giving us the type of love and validation we need and deserve. Know the difference. Know the difference between who can help us and who can continue to damage us.
This...This Time It’s Different
The previous years was about survival. Dealing with extreme change. Getting by. But this year...it’s about now finding your true self and embracing it. Finding peace and focusing on only the things and people who bring out your best in you. It’s also self acceptance. Self affirmations. Self love.
I am telling you the power of change can happen over night. It’s accepting and releasing. It’s not repeating patterns that caused pain and self doubt.
Don’t dwell on the past. What’s meant to be in your life will be in your life. What 2020 and today are about is finding what makes you you. What makes your soul happy. Do more of that!
Don’t Change...Enjoy The Little Things
Look. Look outside.
It’s the magic of life to view the little things that lead to big things. Enjoy your magic.
So Much To Say...
Every morning my parents talk. He brings her coffee in bed. She then gets up and they spend an hour together taking before work. I always wondered how the hell they had so much to talk about. But then I met a friend. I swear I always would say to him I have so much to tell you. We would talk all day almost everyday about anything and everything. We even had a ton of disagreements but really it was a good point in our life for us.
So now whenever I wonder why or what could my parents possibly have to say to one another it hits me that they are friends. Best friends. They really enjoy each other. That their marriage is also a friendship and that hit me like wow that’s how a marriage lasts.
That’s how Relationship lasts. Having a friendship. Love and lust fades but I could see how fun it could be to live with your best friend and enjoy life together.
That right there is a prime example to me. To choose someone who you want to run to and have endless chats with. To end up with someone who is not just a lover but also your friend.
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