In a classy way ❤️
Monday, January 6, 2020
Sedona Monday Nights
Charity nights on Mondays. Great price and you can get steak or grilled chicken.
Red Flags Why Wait?
While yes in some situations you should seek counseling and support and guidance it’s critical to know that some situations are extremely damaging. Some things can’t be forgiven or healed or repaired. Some things stay with you. They become a part of you.
That my friend isn’t easy. Trust issues. Pain. Heartache. PTSD are all real.
Know your worth. Know when to leave. Know when to stay.
Everything About Life
Yes but inbetween it’s magic. It’s heartache. It’s stressful situations. It’s laughter. It’s beautiful and painful at the same time.
Life goes on. Regardless who is by your side but how amazing is the journey inbetween it all.
I can write about my pains and sorrows but I can’t do that because I can’t change what’s happened. I can change going forward and seeing the beauty in it. Little things.
Mornings can be rough. Then amazing. Don’t hold a grudge. Don’t hold hate in your heart for anyone ever. Love and let go.
Enjoy the magic because life does go one regardless if you’re happy or not. Might as well enjoy it.
Find Your People
Nothing beats a good friendship. Where you can talk about anything and everything for hours.
A friend met me for coffee the other day. She said why do I always feel drunk when I am with you. Because we bring out the silly side of one another I said. It’s true. We have amazing energy together. We meet people. We talk to everyone. We talk about anything and everything. It’s the best.
You need people like that. Who bring out your true fun side. Life is so damn serious. You need a break from the reality. Have some fun!
Appreciate your people ❤️
Lessons Learned
This is ok. It’s good karma on you. Don’t change. Keep being you. Those who deserve your time will appreciate it.
Find Your Real People
No hidden agendas. No pastimes. No intentions to give you only what they need.
Let those people go who kind of didn’t deserve you from the start. Their intentions aren’t for you it was for themselves. For their ego. For their own desires. For their own fulfillment. That’s not you. You need something with pure substance. Someone who can help you grow intellectual. Someone who will root for your success. Someone who is in it just like you are.
Sunday, January 5, 2020
Social Media Humor
I only knew one guy you didn’t have social media and it was pretty amazing and impressive. Like a mystery as to how he is or what he’s doing.
It’s About Connecting Spiritually
Let go of past mindset. Connecting with people isn’t about just physical attraction or a physical connection. You need to connect with people on a spiritual level. That’s not easy to do but necessary. You need to be aligned and give your all and then too in order to really embrace a fulfilling relationship. Mental connection. Respect each other. Have a friendship. All these things matter and should be a priority.
Become Aware
Last 10 years was change. Next 10 years is growth. It starts with being aware. Aware with the good and bad. The changes you have to make. Spiritual awakening is good to heal the soul and to achieve growth. We all can do it. Clear your mind.
You need to own some stuff. Your triggers. Your insecurities. And doing it solo can be tough but it’s also ok because you’re not influenced by anyone. You’re really looking within to deal with some unresolved issues. You’re aligning with your true self and true beliefs.
The amazing thing about this process is that you are calm through it which means you’re content and doing the right thing. You’re at peace with the fact that you’re learning, changing and growing. You’re happy. You’re unburying pain and situations to heal so you can fully be happy and let someone in. There’s no space for it yet. In time.
It’s a beautiful thing.
It’s Not You
We think we can change or change them or wait or in time...stop. Release that. No matter what you do you will never be right for the wrong person. It’s not you. It’s just how it is.
Fixing Someone For Someone Else
This...this is something tough to swallow. Helping someone and it benefits someone else. But in life we are taught to learn or teach. Sometimes when you teach you don’t benefit but it’s a part of your journey.
Just learn and keep going...
Imagine All The Firsts...
The good thing about starting again is embracing and enjoying all your firsts all over again and again.
Look back and recall all your firsts with someone. How did it feel? Would you do it the same again?
How exciting to do all those things again. To see how they react or embrace it. The first holiday. The first adventure. The first intimate experience.
Now isn’t that something to be excited about?
What’s Self-Care?
When you’re happy and content you then can enjoy the little things around you. Your kids see you happy. Your family and friends see you happy. Whatever it takes you owe it to yourself to be happy.
There’s A Difference When It Comes To Love
Know the difference. Know when to walk away. Know when to realize what you get from certain people. Honestly when you’re happy with yourself it’s ok to not fight for this. It’s ok to accept people for who they are deep down to their core. Not who you thought they were.
Some people don’t want to be what you need. That’s ok. Choose to walk away. People can be what you need only if they want to be not because you want them to be.
It’s That Time Of Year...
My kids joke about how I always make them wipe their hands when they get in the car after being someplace or making them wash their hands every time they get home but these little tips can help avoid them getting sick.
It’s All About Personal Growth
Being at peace. Looking within and reflecting. How great is it to get the opportunity to be better. Do better. Feel better 💗
Be...
Purely, sincerely, genuinely...truly be a good person. Always. Even when someone doesn’t have the best intentions for you. Even when days are stressful. Even when you may not be surrounding my people who make you feel your best. Still be a good person.
Start Today
Anything that doesn’t bring out the best of you has to change. Stay away from people who don’t bring out the best of you. Start today not for anyone else but yourself ❤️
Years ago I never imagined I would be where I was at now today. With myself. Finding peace within. Years of crap I didn’t cause. Even recently I have to re-evaluate the people I had in my life and make a change.
Change is scary but the rewards...the growth...the peace of mind...that’s priceless.
Saturday, January 4, 2020
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