Wednesday, March 4, 2020
Relationship Tips: Not About You
I think we overlook a lot. I think we doubt ourselves in situations. I think when that happens we know we aren’t in the right relationships but don’t want to admit it. In time when we walk away from things that do make us insecure we realized a lot didn’t have anything to really do with us to begin with. That what we felt was unnecessary. That we were just with the wrong person.
Tuesday, March 3, 2020
Take That Step
I kept going back. I finally said let’s talk this out. When we did we got clarity and I got to see a situation from a different perspective. I apologized for my part and I will tell you it brought us clarity and comfort. It also brought us peace.
Take that step. Change your life. Change patterns. What do you keep going back to? Why? Who do you keep going back to? Why? What are you looking to change? What and who brings you peace?
I swear you have to be open minded to know what you did wrong too to fix a situation. When you do it’s amazing the peace it brings you.
Have You Found Your Ray of Sunshine?
Sometimes we search and search and then sometimes the person has been there all along 💛
Monday, March 2, 2020
Sunday, March 1, 2020
Here’s to 7
She’s different. She’s quiet yet tough she’s super smart she favors me. She always has. I mean I am a pretty cool mom but really we have this connection. I found out I had cancer when I was pregnant with her so she already fulfilled her life purpose in my eyes. She saved my life. How many people are born saying that?
She doesn’t ask for much but when she does you better listen. She’s sweet and gentle. Kind. A free spirit yet she can hold her ground. I used to worry about her. I didn’t want anyone to boss her around. She’s definitely proved I don’t have to worry about that. She has a happy soul. Calm. I hope she never changes. I hope she stays happy forever. I hope today and every birthday she feels our love for her.
Friday, February 28, 2020
Thursday, February 27, 2020
Are You Making Too Much Of It?
They always say majority of our problems and issues are really in our head verse what we are facing.
Take a step back and really reevaluate the situation. Problems will always occur. Don’t let them consume you. Write down what’s bothering you and then let it go. Find a solution. That’s always the main goal. And be good to you. You can’t stress over everything!
Are You The Whole Package?
I was talking to a friend about this. What we need in a companion. If we’re the whole package and I swear a voice came into my head. It said we don’t need validation from others when we just need validation from ourselves.
The journey of dating or divorce or second time around is tricky. You tend to fall for people who are either completely opposites or completely the same from past relationships. You also tend to look for red flags or over look red flags that remind you of past relationships.
So what do I suggest?
Be alone.
Listen we’re never really alone BUT when you don’t jump from relationship to relationship you get to really think about what you want in a companion. You tend to create your own package.
No no one is perfect but you can be picky. You can save your energy and time for people who are worth it and value you for it.
So what’s the whole package to you?
It’s different than mine or anyone else’s. We all need different things. I always say what I want is simple but yet I haven’t completely found it. Have you?
My package isn’t simple even though I act like it is. He needs to be a certain guy. Confident. Secure. Hardworking. Happy. Love kids and has kids. Reliable and dependable. Have the same interests as me. Funny. Takes care of himself. Doesn’t want to change me. Accepts all of me. Likes to dance and try new adventures. Outgoing and strong yet sweet and gentle. He must love his job and his choices in life. He can’t be jealous or insecure. He can’t be aggressive or forceful. He has to be confident in himself. Trustworthy and honest. He has to be able to let me vent to him and listen. We need to be able to communicate well when we face confrontation.
I laugh as I write this because it’s like asking for a perfect guy that may not exist but I swear there has to be someone close to this.
Now your turn...what’s your whole package person?
Wednesday, February 26, 2020
Feathers...Again....Just Be Happy
I wrote about my feather experience. Well it’s happening again. This time I am not overwhelmed or stressed or nervous. I am enjoying life because no matter what we will always have things to deal with and handle. Why be mad about it.
*Brown and white feather - happiness, and you will go under the radar from psychic or other harm. Grey and white symbolise hope.
Read more about it
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Ash Wednesday: Thank God...We Are Alive
I always liked the season of lent. Ash Wednesday and Easter. But then I got in a car accident. It was right before I got pregnant with my oldest. I won’t forget that day. A four car accident all because I skid going on the Merritt. I remember saying to myself get off the road just get off the road. My car was like a ping pong machine. I swear my guardian angels saved me. I got off the road and went straight towards a tree. The front grill of my pathfinder took the impact. I walked out of my car without a scratch. My car totaled I even bent a guard rail. It was a mess. A scary mess yet we all walked away fine.
That night I went to church to pray. A little girl voice said thank god you’re alive. There were no little
Girls near me. It was my angel. Inner child. Whomever But she was right.
We all have these tests in life. Where we cheat death. That was one of mine. I walked into church today with my little crew and this time I was the one who said thank god I am alive.
We are constantly getting second changes at life. Whether we realize it or not. Make it the best it can be. Be happy. Appreciate what people do for you. Respect those who love you.
Be grateful to be alive.
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