Wednesday, December 23, 2020
Happy Christmas Eve Eve
May these next couple of days fill your heart with love and happiness! Less stress. More fun.
Tuesday, December 22, 2020
What Are You Holding On To?
I once had a friend who was not in a great relationship. So much drama. Older couple too. Always on a verge of divorce and separation all their marriage. Their relationship was constant on and off with each other. They even have children together. All their family and friends knew their drama. I finally said you are either in 100% or out 100%. No buts. They are still in it and am sure miserable as ever which isn't the way to live.
You cannot live in limbo or make people feel like they are not enough. With everything in life you must give it your all or nothing. No middle ground. If you are with someone accept ALL of them. They are not in charge of your happiness. If you aren't happy leave. People do it all the time and start over and survive just fine and even happier. I did. Millions of people do.
People do not realize how everyone around you gets effected by this. People do not realize how easy it is to be happy. It is actually harder to be miserable. It takes more effort and energy to be sad and mad. It is more draining to be unhappy.
What do you choose to be? What are you holding on to?
It’s Date Night! Happily Co Date Box
With Covid you have to be creative to add some fun to your life. One concept we started was date night boxes. You get a box a month to have a fun date. You can break it up or do it all in one night.
This month box contains:
Instead of tea you can be creative and do spiked Egg Nog or hot toddy’s.
The best part is you and your partner/spouse take a little quiz together to determine the best type of date nights you would enjoy together.
This box is a detective game- ironically and then tea and scones and even a date night play list to play music. We have to bake it together play games and enjoy a nice night in.
Be sure to date someone who enjoys the same adventures and activities as you do. Be sure to keep your relationship fun and spontaneous. Be sure to enjoy the little moments in life.
Learn more here https://thehappily.co/
I Wish You Peace & Love
As the holidays approach us I want to remind you what it is really about. It is about surrounding yourself with love and peace. Happiness and joy. It isn't a time to think about what you do not have. It is about being grateful for what you do have.
I look forward to spending the holidays with my kids, family and boyfriend all together for my favorite holiday- Christmas Eve. It may not be the big celebration we are used to but at least we all have each other.
Be grateful for these moments and remember what life is really about!
Monday, December 21, 2020
Sunday, December 20, 2020
Gingerbread Men Fun
I love anything to do with crafts and kits. Every time I spot something like this I have to get it for the kids.
This was a lot of fun. I also gave them more sprinkles to add to their decorations. What fun holiday crafts have you done this season?
Are You Emotionally Intelligent?
Are you emotionally intelligent?
I think a lot of people think they are but aren’t. I think it’s something we aren’t taught. It can be taught. You can become emotionally intelligent but it starts within.
It’s being able to have control over your emotions. At any given state of mind. It’s being able to show empathy. To be self aware.
“ EI is the capacity to be aware of, to control and express one’s emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically. Simply put, people with a high degree of EI know what they’re feeling, what their emotions mean, and how these emotions can affect other people.”*
They have control over their emotions. They don’t easily react. They process first. I have met a ton of people close to me who are NOT emotionally intelligent. They react then process. I am sure you have too. They point blame. They are easily triggered. It’s a very common thing. It’s very immature.
*Source: https://www.quarrymagazine.com/2019/05/08/emotional-intelligence-a-key-to-organisational-success/
“People with high EQs master their emotions because they understand them, and they use an extensive vocabulary of feelings to do so. While many people might describe themselves as simply feeling “bad,” emotionally intelligent people can pinpoint whether they feel “irritable,” “frustrated,” “downtrodden,” or “anxious.” **
**Source: https://legacyplacesociety.com/emotional-intelligence-significance/
**Source: https://legacyplacesociety.com/emotional-intelligence-significance/
I think we should focus on teaching our children about this as well. I feel as adults we have to focus on being more in-tune with who we are too. If someone early on helped us express how we felt intelligently then we would live a better life. Have better relationships. Function better at work and in daily tasks. It would be better for our health too.
Saturday, December 19, 2020
Not On Your Journey or Mine
You don’t need to carry them along on your journey. Move on from people and situations and jobs that aren’t good for you. The past is the past for a reason.
I wish my past all great things. Just don’t expect to still be a part of my journey.
How Do You Top Your Egg Nog?
Best Egg Nog brand is Hood for sure. But what do YOU top your Egg Nog with?
Amaretto is my favorite liquor to add. The nutty flavor enhances the Egg Nog. Doesn’t make it too strong and just compliments it.
Are You Happy?
No matter what your circumstances just be happy. Life is much more enjoyable that way!
Cute inspirational site: https://m.facebook.com/Choose-to-Be-Happy-480411512046730/
Snoop Dog Wine Collection
We grew up listening to his music so when a friend brought over a bottle of his wine and showed us their interactive app. We couldn’t help but enjoy the process. It’s not his typical “Gin & Juice”.
Really cool concept. https://www.19crimes.com/
Westchester's Winter Wonderland Drive-Thru Light Show Experience
Stunning is an understatement. We went for my best friend’s birthday. It was beautiful. You pay per car to get in. It’s 25-30 minutes from Norwalk. So worth it. You drive around for 15 mins looking at awesome light displays. You must buy tickets in advance.
Friday, December 18, 2020
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