Change Your Approach

I read this article and I loved this quote "Stay committed to your decisions, but stay flexible in your approach."   By Tony Robbins. 

At the end of the day this is YOUR life. You do as you please. You do what you want. You have to be happy with your decision no one else.  No one can stop you BUT you can change the way you say things or how you approach things. 

I noticed this a lot lately. The "f" it I don't care approach. What people don't realize is that you hurt people and it causes people to keep further and further away from you. 

Ex. I felt like doing this so deal with it. Um what if you say I am sorry if it hurt your feelings but this is what I wanted to do. 

Same decision but different approach. It's just common courtesy. If people truly treated people the way they would want to be treated this world would be a happier place!