Being emotionally available and mature and intelligent takes time. It’s easy to put up a wall. It’s easy to go about life and use substances to numb your pain. True growth is looking at your life and saying ok let’s dig up this pain and deal with it. Let’s make some changes.
All along I was me. I am who I am today because I unburied a lot of pain and anger and issues. I had to ground myself to say ok this happened how are you going to handle it? I couldn’t allow situations to consume me. You can’t make anyone change but yourself. I couldn’t allow other people’s actions affect me. I had to only correct myself. I can’t correct anyone else. I had to realize today I am who I am because all the situations helped me. I needed those experiences.
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