Yelling Isn't Always A Bad Sign...

So true Reese Witherspoon. 

Why You Can't Wrap Gifts Or Have...

Enjoy the laugh!

Sista Sista...

Sister time rocks. We originally wanted to go to a movie but it wasn't playing so we said let's grab food and drinks. Um only on one term I said manicures first. I needed one badly and when I go I like getting the sparkle kind. Just dresses up the hands more.

We have been going to Iris Nail Salon in Darien. It's amazing. So nice inside. Like a spa and everyone is so sweet. Very class. Manicures are $12.95. Can't beat the price!

I went with holiday colors and of course glitter in it. 

Then we stopped for apps and drinks at Center Street Public House. Was so good and the waitress Deb was awesome. Really sweet. The price are so reasonable. $10 on Mondays fish and chips with a draft beer- can't beat it. http://centerstreetpub.com

After last week dealing with the episode my dad went through it was nice to get together and share some laughs. I love these girls. Truly with all my heart. Only thing that is better than having a sister is having two!

He's Making A List...

Time To Think Of Your Delivery People Too

Cute idea to leave a care package for them at your front door. 

Read more here:

http://www.scarymommy.com/gift-box-ups-viral-facebook-post/

Pageant Is Over... I Can Now Relax and Cry

I know kids will be kids but they are my kids and well I always get a little anxious when they are involved in something. My kids are 2, 3 1/2 and 8. Of course the little ones want to do what their big sister does. 

So last week at rehersal my two year old puts on a costume and marches down the aisle during practice. Then she shouts my name and runs back and forth. Practice was canceled yesterday due to snow so that meant only one more rehersal would take place the morning of the Christmas pageant. 1 hr before show time. 

I turn to the director and say I don't want the little one in the pageant. I am nervous she will run up and down the aisles too much. Her reply"so what she will be fine"

My stomach hurt but she was right. So what. She's two. She can get away with it. Needless to say everyone cracked up at her pageant moves running after her big sister to hold her hands and coming back again infront of a packed church. I was super stressed and my husband turned to me and said stop they are fine. After he was right. Just then I notice my oldest daughter joined her Chior on stage. I didn't know she was going to.  Tears filled my eyes. My babies are amazing. The rest of the day I was in awe of these three confident little girls who are mine. 

Parenting Humor...Not So Easy

Tonight we had a night out with a great group of friends and this image seemed fitting. Some are new parents some are "parents to be."

I had a couple of margaritas and we starting discussing the "truth" of parenthood. You know the stuff people

don't actually tell you.

For starters it's amazing being a parent but picture having roommates. These roommates you love and enjoy their company but sometimes they don't do things you like or approve of. They have habits that drive you crazy and sometimes you just need a little

"time out." Yet you love coming home to these "roommates"...that's parenthood. 

All I Want For Christmas...

Happy Holidays!

From my family to yours!

Nothing Is Permanent

Rest In Peace Sweet Angels

Must See Christmas Movie List

Declutter and Give Back...Simple Task

Love this idea...not sure if my kids would but can't hurt to try!

Snowman Humor

Feel Good Song: Hallelujah by Pentatonix

Holiday Lights in CT

We used to have a guy in town who put on an amazing display of holiday lights. He has retired and last year was the last year he did them. 

Even though my husband thinks our house should be like the house from the Movie Christmas Vacation, I miss the house we used to always visit. I saw a friend post pictures from this and it's on my list of places to visit with the kids. 

If you have been please share your experience in the comments section below. 

Powered Donuts Snowman Craft

I saw this at a bake sale and attempted them tonight with my girls. All you need are white powdered donuts, M&M's, chocolate frosting, twizzlers and wooden skewers.  

Step Back & Take It All In

As a parent your kids are a representation of you. Well, most of the time. So we think. 

We put this added pressure on ourselves to make sure they are well behaved and sometimes the stress is overwhelming. My two oldest were going to do the Christmas pageant at Church. Once my youngest saw she picked up a costume and stood in line. "Oh no honey you can't be in it. Come sit with me". Just then the leaders said "of course she can be. She can be whatever she wants"

I held my breath. She's only two. Structure is not something she is aware of. She walked down and held another "Angels" hand and once she stood on at alter she shouted "mommy mommy" and waved to me. She did run back and forth a couple of times and the leaders grabbed her hand and walked her back. 

Step back and take it all in. It's ok for not everything to always be in your control!

And just like that my three beauties were all together and part of the rehersal for the Christmas pageant. 

Brunch With Santa

Decorating "Lucky"

My kids names our tree "Lucky". Guess they are right. It gets to spend the next four weeks with us. Tonight we decorated it. The soft branches made it hard to put up some heavy ornaments so we left a good amount down or hid them up top. We didn't loose or break an ornaments this decorating season. Which is a miracle with having three little Ones. 

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas...

You Can Change!

Let's face it people go through episodes in their life where they aren't the proudest of themselves or they feel dissapointed in a chain of events that have taken place. Trust me I get it. But what people have to also realize is that you have control over your destiny. If you don't like something well then do some changing. 

It doesn't have to be huge. Start with baby steps. Start thinking why things are taking place around you. Why you feel so compassionate about some stuff verse another. 

We have these certain situations that we automatically react to. Try changing the way you think. See how you then change the way you handle that situation. 

I used to think I "had" to do some things. I felt I had to make other people happy or clarify my actions. Well in time that changed. We don't "have" to do anything we don't want to or put pressure on ourselves. Sometimes getting out of your "old way of thinking" helps bring focus and better results for you. 

It's The Holiday Season Add Some Sparkle

What a difference a little glitter can make! Past couple of manicures I had my eye was drawn towards the polish with glitter.

Something about washing dishes and looking down at your fancy nails makes the whole experience more enjoyable.

The other night I asked my sister if she wanted to come out and go to a wake and Walmart with me. She responded "only if we can sneak in a Manicure"

We arrive and she insists on treating me. I grab the polish and she laughs. She says your always grabbing the sparkle. As my lady is applying it to my nails I lean over and tell my sister she should add it to her top coat. She listened and loved it. 

Add some sparkle to your nails. It's the little things that make a difference in your day even if it is just having fancy nails when doing dishes.  

Winter Festival This Saturday Dec 3rd 2016

It's Officially The Holiday Season

Happy December 1st!

Fun Stocking Stuffer Ideas For Babies

Source: Instagram Mommy Scape

Live By Your Own Decisions Regardless If People Understand It!

Stuff A Cruiser Event Saturday Dec 2nd In Norwalk

'Tis the season to give back. On Saturday Dec 2nd from 12-8pm

Norwalk Police Officers will be collecting toys at Toys R Us in Norwalk. 

Pie Face Game...So Much Fun!

I know I know I may be a year behind. I had friends scoping out all the stores looking for this game last year but I finally got around to buying it and it's so much fun!

Perfect to do before kids bath time. The girls had a blast playing and I will be buying it for all the other little ones in my family this holiday season. 

25 Days of Holiday Filled TV

Black Friday vs. Cyber Monday

Cyber Monday was definetly a mom's idea who felt left out on Black Friday!

NYC It's Like No Other Place

No matter how many times I visit New York I am always in awe. I act like its my first time and take pictures of the skyline and lights and buildings. The energy is unreal. The eye is so satisfied because it is constantly entertained. Buildings you wouldn't think to look twice at has a hidden gem in it. It's nuts. 

Last night my sister treated me to our yearly holiday night to see Jo Koy at Caroline's on Broadway. So much fun. We laughed so much our face hurt. I smiled the whole night. Being care free. Sorry also child free helps contribute to it. But honestly to get out and have an "adult" night is so good and well needed. 

When was the last time you did?

Be Thankful For All You Have

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

I hope you had an amazing Turkey day! To 

Easy Thanksgiving Goodies

Anything easy and creative always grabs my attention. These are super cute and easy to do. 

Source: Instagram Cntdelmar 

Source: Instagram Foodydiy 

Gobble Gobble Gobble Turkey Day Is Coming

I loveeeee Thanksgiving. I actually went into labor 8 years ago on Thanksgiving. So it will always be extra special for me. 

This Thanksgiving be sure to give thanks. Thanks for the bad times- it helped make you stronger. Thanks for the good times- it gave you hope. Thanks for the amazing people in your life- they help motivate you to keep going!

Thank You Readers. I write for you!

Tuesday Motivation: Get Up & Shine

It's That Time Of Year: Black Friday Deals

Who doesn't enjoy shopping? Now you can beat the lines by preparing ahead of time. Check out what your favorite stores have in place for their Black Friday Deals!

Happy Shopping!

https://www.theblackfriday.com

Inspire Others

Choose To Be At Peace

This year has been rough. Work has been amazing. My children have excelled so much. I am grateful for that. There has been a lot of stress I have had to deal with either though it hasn't been something I directly had control over. 

When I was younger I was a "free spirit". I definitely was a hippie in my past life. I loved life and flowers and peace and painting. I was calm and collected. A lot didn't bother me. Things through the years changed. This past year has been a blur. Really feel like we just had Christmas. As if maybe I was some sort of walking zombie through it all. 

No more. I woke up and saw something that brought me back to my "free spirit" years. I knew I needed a change. No more stress. No more drama. No more walking zombie. 

I choose peace. Now it doesn't mean stuff isn't still going to happen? Yes but really so out of my control that I need to regroup and find myself again. My true self. 

So with that all being said sorry I haven't been on as often as I like. I hate to be a hypocrite to "do as I say not as I do". I am ready to say goodbye to 2016. I am ready to welcome a better mind set. 

Join me and letting it all go. Choose to be at peace. It feels good!

Monday Reminder...

UBS Thanksgiving Day Parade In Stamford Today

It's a windy day! Not sure if they will have big character balloons up but parade will still take place. 

http://stamford-downtown.com/events/ubs-parade-spectacular-3/

Kidville in Westport Deal On Groupon

Looking for something fun to do with your little one or a fun gift that a family member could use? Kidville in Westport is your home away from home. The staff is super amazing. The place is always clean and decorated for the seasons. The open gym play is always layed out differently so you and your little one never get bored. For years I read reviews as to where to take my kids. Once I found this place I never looked again. Trust me you'll feel the same way!

Check out this great deal they have on Groupon https://www.groupon.com/deals/kidville-westport-1?utm_campaign=UserReferral_mih&utm_source=uu45662251&utm_medium=sms

Perfect Potato Guide

Source: Mommy Scape on Instagram

Do You Have A Little Explorer?

This is perfect for your little explorer. They can receive this monthly and learn about different countries and customs around the world. Really love this idea! 

https://www.littlepassports.com/

Just A Reminder...