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Saturday, January 18, 2020

You Create Your Current State


Look at your life...at one point you envisioned it the way it is today. You asked for it. 

I did.  I always said I was the happiest single and wanted to bring myself back to that happy place. I did. I am. 

Look at your life. 

You asked for this. Whether it makes you happy or not you sent out to the universe this vibe. Your worries. Your dreams. It all manifested. 

You can change it at any moment in time. You can change your life, your thoughts, your desires. 

You can say I want and watch it manifest. Try it!
Embrace this moment...this moment is your life. 

Today’s Affirmation: Follow Your Intuition




See The Beauty in All Your Stages



Happy Saturday



You Are In Control





Friday, January 17, 2020

To My Past....


Clear your past. Let that all go. What’s here now is what matters. Forgive those who didn’t know how to love you. Forgive yourself for loving the wrong people. Forgive the past and make a clean slate for your future. 

It’s amazing when you come to peace with what you have been through you actually make space for new adventures. 

Today’s Affirmation: Forgive Yourself



Cheers to the Weekend





If You Want Change...Start With Yourself



January 17th Trust Your Process



Have a good, pure, heart! ❤️

Cha Cha Girl


Love this ❤️

Let Go Of Jealousy





A friend actually wrote this when we were talking about being jealous of situations. It struck me. It was true.  When we are jealous we only hurt ourselves. We aren’t punishing the person or situation or circumstances we are jealous of we are actually hurting ourselves. 

You have to have enough faith to know you have what you need and when you don’t you will get it. 

I was never raised to be jealous or envious of others. I do at times when there’s a situation with competing I step away. I am not competitive. I don’t like having to prove myself. I feel what you see is what you get and that’s enough for the right person and situation. 

If you’re jealous- let go of it. Instead be grateful for what you do have and for all those people who are in your life. Not the situations you don’t have or the people who didn’t decide to stay. 

Inner Peace....



Feel Good Song: Black Velvet


It Just Takes One Person...One Smile



Keep Growing!



Feel Good Song: Edge of Seventeen


Being Alone Can Be Sort of Amazing...


It’s not saying be a loner and not have anyone in your life. It’s saying being happy alone is good for you. It means when you do find the one you will know and be able to offer them your best version of you. ❤️

You Got This Girl...





We All Need Different Things In Life



Leave it to the Specialists



I was feeling awesome. I go to see my thyroid specialist. She’s like how do you feel. I said amazing. She then asks about meds I said well my primary at my physical said to skip a day since levels are high back in October. 

I swear I felt like her child in that moment. She let me have it. “Why would you do that without telling me. You are a cancer patient you aren’t treated like everyone else.”

She was right. 

I said well I feel great. She went on to say how shocked she is because even though my levels show no cancer my thyroid is in Hypo mode. Which is too low. She’s shocked I feel great and no wonder why I haven’t had weight loss. My levels are too low and the gym is probably keeping me going. 

Ouch. I felt foolish. 

I said in humor so this means with new levels I will lose weight? 

She wasn’t amused. 

So now I have two new doses and an order to see her in 8 weeks. 

I walked out a bit defeated. I was like crap this is why you leave it to the specialists. Also a bit worried since I feel amazing what will happen once levels are normal. Will I be even more energized. Also knowing for the rest of my life my levels can be off and I could function just fine. 

So take my advice. Please don’t make changes without the doctor in charge and even if you feel great be sure to take care of yourself and see a doctor. 

My situation scared me a bit. I did keep pushing my appointment and if I went sooner she could have adjusted meds sooner. 

Who ever said not having a thyroid is easy probably still has theirs. 

How You Find Peace



Grocery Shopping Humor



Looking At Life Differently


I love this. 

Every person you meet or have in your life serves a purpose for you and you serve a purpose for them. You are impacting their life in a certain way and they are impacting yours. 



Happiness...



“Happiness is how you feel about yourself when you’re by yourself” 

What’s Your Spirit Animal?


I never really thought about it. I never really see animals in my dreams. I always was drawn to giraffes and koala bears. So I was speaking to a friend who knew his. He suggested I took a test so I did. It actually said I was a Butterfly which is ironic because butterflies symbolizes transformation and it’s the shape of a Thyroid so I always say I had to set my “butterfly” free to live. 

Life sure is ironic. Take your test here





I recently posted a picture of change and growth with a caterpillar and butterfly. It’s important to change and grow through your lifetime. Read post here




Your Current State Is Teaching You Something



Feel Good Song: Gypsy


Feel Good Song: Human Nature


You Attract What You Think


I kept saying my best time was my alone time. When I just focused on me and my kids and my work and family and friends around me. When I had no pressure to find someone who was aligned with what I wanted and needed. 

So a couple years later and I am back at that point. Not saying we don’t want a companion.  In due time. I am saying I had to work through some patterns and break cycles to realize maybe just maybe deep down I wanted to be where I once was. In peace. With myself and my current state of life. I just kindof did it myself. I attracted my current state...being alone again just focusing on what I need and my kids and work and family and friends. I appreciate those I met along my journey but when you’re at peace you are calm and you glow differently and sleep differently and appreciate life differently. 

Be content with your life too and if you’re not then please make a change. 💜

Happy Friday...What Makes You Happy?



Less is more at times. Remember that...Where you can appreciate the little things in life. 

Thursday, January 16, 2020

Be at Peace With Yourself



Follow Your Path



Dating Goals



Follow Your Heart


Bad Moments Don’t Make Bad Days


I totally get this. So I am having a good day and then I remember something. A memory or something reminds me of something.  Then pain comes. I get sad. I literary have to say girl stop that...enjoy the day. So what it still hurts or bothers you but look at the positive things in your life. Look how far you have come  Look how different your life is today verse yesterday. And then I am better. 

Domestic Violence is Never Ok One Artist’s Movement

I saw this article and it stayed with me. Domestic violence is never ever ok. I don’t care if it’s verbal or abusive. In one country an artist mounted 440 pairs of shoes to represent the number of women killed in one
year by their husbands. The thought makes my stomach turn. To know the person you chose to spend the rest of your life with turns around and does this to you. 

As a mom of girls it’s our job to be role models. To show our girls what’s acceptable and not acceptable behavior from a companion and spouse. Never will I degrade myself again to have them think love looks a certain way. Love isn’t anger or jealously or being aggressive. Love is a partnership. Communication. Love. It’s 50-50 work. It’s being eachother best friend and better half. 

I have even seen it with women being aggressive to men too. It’s never ok. Under no circumstances should anyone have aggressive behavior towards you. No child should witness their parent being a victim to abuse. It causes patterns. Patterns of being like that parent or getting into relationships like their parents. It’s a vicious cycle. 

I hope this artist’s voice gets heard. I hope men learn to treat women equally. I hope no one witnesses abuse. It’s the most awful experience to go through. The fear. The rage. Here in America it’s not tolerated but around the world women are still being victimized to it. Just awful and sad. 

Read the full article here 

There’s A Haunting Memorial Honoring 440 Women Killed By Their Husbands Last Year In Turkey






Today’s Affirmation Love Yourself Just The Way You Are



Of course we can improve. Who can’t? But love yourself during that process. Anything change is just an improvement. 💗

Invest In Yourself...You’re Worth It



Feel Good Song: The Hype



I keep hearing this band in the car and at the gym  Been a while since I heard them. Now it seems like I hear them almost once a day. 

The Spread in Greenwich Anniversary Celebration



Thursday Reminder



Look Mom...a Coin


I see them all the time. It’s like that phrase “pennies from heaven” but mine are dimes. I see them constantly. Reminders you always have people with you. ❤️



What’s On Your To-Do List



Happy Thursday



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Wednesday, January 15, 2020

This Is My Time


Enjoy your time. I am.  

Embrace Life’s Detours



You’re Where You’re Meant To Be


Gotta believe in something greater than the obvious 💜


Your Nightly Reminder


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Say Sorry



When you’re wrong. When you hurt someone. Say sorry. 

You can ever be too proud to admit your mistakes. Say sorry my bad didn’t mean to do that. 

I hear it all the time. I apologize too. Why? Because why not?

I always respect someone for their honesty. For admitting mistakes verse being a tough skin person. We are always learning. We are always trying to improve. Say sorry. When you’re wrong. When you know someone is hurting because of your words and actions. When you make a mistake. 

No one is perfect. There’s not harm on apologizing. Try it. I have. You should too. 


Accept Change


Don’t stay comfortable. Don’t stay because you’re afraid of change. Don’t stay in a situation because you’re used to it. If you don’t wake up everyday and say wow my life is amazing. Then change. 

I was a stay at home mom. If you look at my posts form years ago I was this homemaker. Arts and Crafts. I am not who I was. I still love that stuff but I went through a dark period. We all have. At one point or another. I now am living my best life and hope every year I change to be better. To say nah this year is better than last and so on. 

You can’t stay the same. You have to constantly work on changing yourself and bettering your situation and life. You can’t get lazy and comfortable. You can’t settle. 

Welcome change. Embrace it. Be a new version of you every time you choose.  

Wednesday Motivation



Choose Yourself


I have actually loved my alone time. My time. You need to learn to love yours and if you don’t have it make time for it. 

When you’re comfortable in your skin and happy with your own company people flock to you. Ironic. I know. 

Happy National Bagel Day

 

Enjoy a free bagel at Stews. 

Feel Good Song: Man in the Mirror


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MOMMY CT



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