Wednesday, September 16, 2020
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
Monday, September 14, 2020
Sunday, September 13, 2020
Laugher Is The Key To Your Heart
Looks fade but someone’s personality and ability to make you laugh is super important for a relationship.
Let Your Past Be Your Past
We all have a past. No matter who you are. There will always be friendships or relationships that suddenly crashed or ended. That faded away. Sometimes we just walk away without ever knowing why. We all know it’s for the best. Always. But sometimes a song or a smell or a place reminds you of that person and you wonder how they are.
It doesn’t mean you should reach out. That’s just silly. It just means that people leave a mark in your life. Some break your hearts. Some leave without a reason. Some stay forever. Wish them well and it’s ok to remember the good. To still hold them in your heart. It’s normal. We are human. We impact one another all the time.
Choose Your People Wisely
Ever been around someone like this? Where you can’t have a voice or a say or can’t even bring up a discussion without them shooting it down? I can’t stand those situations. It’s draining.
After all this time it still bothers me when people don’t get it. When they don’t see their argumentative views. Where their tongue is sharp and their vibe just drains the people around them.
People have to realize that inorder for someone to want or to enjoy your company you have to provide good company. And for those who drain you limit your time with them. It’s not worth your peace. You won’t change them. Just change your relationship with them.
Happy Grandparent’s Day
Be sure to thank all the grandparents in your life and your children’s too. Grateful that my girls have awesome grandparents in their lives.
Saturday, September 12, 2020
What’s Better Than Breakfast With Your Best Friends?
This has been our go to spot. It’s just so delicious. I love they always have fresh flowers on the table. I love the quality of food and the pricing too. What’s even better was I got to start my day with two of my best friends. We have come a long way and I love how much laughs we have together.
We have became friends as adults which I always appreciated. It’s nice to know you can still meet new people along the way that make you feel like you have known them your whole life. Appreciate those on your journey.
Friday, September 11, 2020
Zul Cafe and Grill in Norwalk Authentic Filipino Food
I drove past this restaurant a couple of times and realized I never had Filipino food. I have had Thai, Korean, Asian, Chinese, Japanese and Vietnamese etc... but never Authentic Filipino Food. So of course I had to try it. Note they are closed on Mondays and close at 7:00 pm most nights.
I didn't know what to order. Whenever I am not sure what to order I look for their Instagram account and see their food picture posts. We ended up ordering their Beef Mami- which is like a noodle stew. Light colored broth. It had vegetables and noodles and thinly slices of beef. It wasn't too strong of a flavor. Mild and light. We also got the chicken inasal. This is sliced bbq chicken. It was really good. It came with a brown rice and cucumbers and a light clear broth and then spring rolls. The spring rolls had some meat but mostly vegetables.
I was happy to try it. The staff is very friendly. The restaurant is very clean and prices are really good. https://zulcafeandgrill.com/
Reading For Pleasure & Self Growth
I once read someplace that said a person who reads is an evolving person. We aren’t stuck to be one type. We aren’t stuck to be the same we have always been. We can evolve. Everyday.
I have a stack of books on my nightstand. Probably close to 10. I love when I see that stack. I was a different version of myself every time I picked up one of those books. It helped me see things differently. I was eager to change. I was eager to overcome some really rough and bad patches in my life. I didn’t want to hang onto pain or anger or hurt. I wanted to grow as a person. Heal. Be at peace. Be happy and calm. Live a life I chose to live.
Did my books help me? Absolutely but what really helped was my mindset to want to change. You can’t change unless you want to. There’s a difference.
Out of all the books the one that helped me tremendously was the one by Kamal Ravikant. “Love yourself like your life depends on it.” Life changing. It opened my eyes up to so much. I would reread chapters and loved how I viewed things differently every time.
I never noticed how much I did change until I was speaking to someone about my past. How I fought so hard to own my mistakes and my part in the failures so I didn’t repeat them again. I evolved so fast because I wanted a different life so badly. I wanted to change. I wanted to have my true self be present not hidden behind pain or failures or self doubt. I wanted to present myself to the world in my truest form. Like it or not this is me. The real me.
What books have helped you evolve?
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