Saturday, February 13, 2021
Friday, February 12, 2021
Not Everything Is In Your Control
This is a hard fact. Things aren’t in your control and you have to be ok with that.
Stew’s Valentines Day Flavor This Weekend
Ct bites posted this. Love this. It’s their red velvet cone. Perfect for Valentine’s Day weekend. Only available this weekend.
Who’s your Valentine?
Take The Risk
How many opportunities did you pass up due to comfort and fear.
Take the risk or lose the chance. It’s really what it boils down to. What are you contemplating?
Celebrate the Chinese New Year with the Sono Branch Library
Join the Sono Branch Library today where they will celebrate: "2021 is the year of the ox. Celebrate Chinese Year with the Chinese legend of "Nian." "Nian" is a beast that lives under the sea or in the mountains in ancient China. Find out how "Nian" relates to the celebration during the program while learning a
Chinese New Year song and creating a Chinese lantern. Construction paper for the craft is available for pick up at the library. Only a stapler and scissors are needed from home."
Register and learn more here
Pain Teaches You...A lot
No regrets. Just lessons.
I cut out a lot of them out. I did it because I couldn’t heal with them in and out of my life. You can’t play all these roles. Lovers. Friends. Support group. Therapist. Not when emotions are attached. It gets too confusing. One feels one way than the other. You can’t heal. If I loved you I needed to heal from you and needed to cut you off completely. I needed to heal. I needed to learn from the lessons.
You can’t do that when people pop in and out. I too did it. In the past I chose to stay in touch because behind it was false hope. It’s not realistic. Things would never work in end.
The Apple Logo Does Have Functionality
I love this fun little tip. Did you know you can set Apple icon on the back of your phone to do something.
Happy Chinese New Year!
Happy Chinese New Year to those who celebrate!
It’s the year of the ox. Wish you Ox year lucky.
To those who don’t celebrate you can learn more about it
here
We All View Things Differently
We all have different stories of the same situation. We view things differently. We interpret things different. We all look at the same sky at night and see something different.
Own your own story.
Thursday, February 11, 2021
Wednesday, February 10, 2021
Why Is Normal So Uncommon?
The other night we were watching a show and we realized the date. We turned to each other and said Happy Anniversary.
I said I know this sounds strange but thank you for always being so nice. After all this time you have never been rude to me or impolite. I never will be he replied as he kissed me.
He never raised his voice or belittles me. He never makes me feel silly for anyway I feel or anything I say or do. He never yelled at me. He genuinely the nicest, kindest guy I have ever met. He has never raised his voice to me.
He in return said thank you for after all this time for not turning out to be crazy.
We both laughed and said why is something so normal so hard to come by? Why must I thank him for being nice and he thank me for not being crazy and flying off the handle whenever I am upset.
Why is normal so hard to find? It is so uncommon?
He should be nice. I should not be crazy. These are common things expected. But they do not turn out that way. I have been with many unkind people. He has been with many crazy people. We both didn't deserve that behavior so now we value each other over something so simple. Our relationship works because we can have healthy calm discussions.
Think about the people in your life or have been in your life. How long have they gone without belittling you or being mean? Have they never been crazy. How long have you gone without yelling at them too?
I can tell you normal is amazing. It's refreshing. Be normal!
Embrace The Process of Healing
Healing takes place all the time. Every single situation teaches us we have some healing to do. My last three years has been a healing journey. I have come a long way. But I still have healing to do everyday.
I am not who I was. I won’t ever be that person. Healing helped me be my true self. Have you given yourself the opportunity to unbury pain. Hurt. Heal.
Please do it.
Tuesday, February 9, 2021
Do You Want Comfort Or Solutions?
Love this. It applies not just to relationships but in being there for anyone in your life.
Most of the time women want comfort. We want to vent. We want someone to say it’s all going to be ok or say nothing at all and just lend an ear. Asking means validating and means you’re listening and care.
Codependency Is A Real Thing
Have you ever dealt with this? Have you spared yourself at the sake of others? It’s a real thing. It’s hard really hard. The focus in within. In yourself. To change. To be ok alone. To be happy with what you have control over.
Stop always giving your all to everyone else and not getting it back.
Monday, February 8, 2021
Sunday, February 7, 2021
What Have You Done For Yourself Today?
I stayed in bed super late and took a walk in the snow. I shoveled while blasting some of my favorite tunes.
What have YOU done for YOU today?
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