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Sunday, December 29, 2019
Our Journeys Are Not The Same
It’s ok...no two journeys are alike BUT the point is to help one another on our journeys. We encourage eachother. Be there for one another. Help one another. Love one another. Even if we don’t end up together. Even if things aren’t aligned. We are all meant to help eachother along the way. Family. Friends. Lovers. Whatever.
May you love and respect those on your journey with you. May you help people with their journey too.
Be Happy Solo
Enjoy yourself. This year I took myself out alone a lot. Dinner. Movies. Lunch. Even sat at a bar and watched a game alone. I traveled alone. Took myself to Downtown Disneyland alone.
Must admit was pretty fun!
I was even tempted to hope on a train and go to NYC alone.
It’s ok to be alone. We’re never fully alone. Thankfully. So when we do want to do something for ourselves it’s ok to do it.
Mill Park Winter Beer Garden Stamford
I have been wanting to come here since I read about it in November. I finally got to go on the last Saturday it was open for the season. It’s so cool. Right outside is an ice rink. Inside is a huge tent. They serve beer or wine.
A ton of tables and chairs and fun couches and chairs and benches. It’s so festive and super clean. Warm
Too.
It was my cousins last night here so was perfect opportunity to take them out. I tried the peach beer was delicious. Great price too.
So glad we got to experience it. Was a great wrap up to the holiday season. I hope your holidays were magical and filled your heart and soul too with happiness.
Skrewball Peanut Butter Whiskey
I don’t drink much but when I do I am selective with what I drink. I love a good Old Fashioned or flavored liquor. We stopped in Cask Republic last night in Stamford and saw this after dinner drink on the menu. Screwball Peanut butter Whiskey. All I have to say is we woke up googling where to buy a bottle. We had it on the rocks. It smelled like chopped peanut nuts. Delicious. Not strong. The perfect drink to hang and chat while sipping on.
The funny thing is a friend bought us a nip in Colorado and I didn’t realize it was the same brand. I definitely loved having it in a large bottle. It got to breathe better.
Saturday, December 28, 2019
There’s Always A Reason
Do you regret meeting me? A friend asked me that. I didn’t know how to respond to him. I swear I almost said yes. Because it caused some unnecessary situations and it wasn’t all great all the time and it hurt much longer then it felt good. It caused me to have some self doubt and I don’t like feeling insecure. BUT I didn’t. I didn’t say yes because truth is we all meet people for a reason.
It’s a part of our path and journey. I don’t regret my ex husband because I had three kids with him and at the time he was what I needed. Do I feel I deserve a better situation...absolutely. We all do but have I found anyone yet that can give me that..not at all.
We change people’s life’s all the time. We also have people come into ours to change ours.
I definitely feel I have connected within. I found my path more. I have learned what triggers me. I learned about my insecurities. I had some awesome adventures and experiences.
I met a friend a year and a half again. I swear I am
always thanking this person for making me feel absolutely amazing always. Like I am just the best thing ever. That’s what he does for me. He provides me a boost of esteem every time I am around him. No drama. No arguments. Just good conversations and easy fun. We both help eachother feel our best.
Crazy how people in your life play different roles. But you need them to. You need different perspectives so you can grow and change as a person.
I think this is true for a lot in our life. A lot of people in my life play different roles. Appreciate them for it. Whether the ones who make you feel amazing or the ones who give you self doubt.
These Two Types Of Pains
The pain that changes you teaches you a lot. It teaches you what you will accept and won’t. It teaches you about love and life and people.
I hope the pain that happened this year made you stronger and didn’t make you bitter. I hope you still believe in love and good in people and fairy tales. I hope you still have your happily ever after long after the emotions hit you.
Pain changed me. It made me look within and seek truth. It really helped me even on my dark painful days. I hope your pain helped you too.
I hope next person you love loves you too and the pain anyone once gave you will make sense.
The Importance of Breathing
When you’re first born or before you pass the one thing that you start with and end with is your breath. When you’re overwhelmed or stressed focus on your breathing.
Great video.
Friday, December 27, 2019
It’s The Last Friday of 2019
Nothing was the same a year ago. Nothing will be the same a year from now. Live for today.
Find Your Authentic Self
Self care and self love. When are we going to be taught how important that is for the mind and body and soul. You can’t take care of others if you neglect loving yourself. Make yourself a priority ❤️
Thursday, December 26, 2019
Just Trying Our Best
I think people don’t get it. I remember feeling like this. It’s overwhelming. Have to smile and keep it together yet have so much responsibility and duties. Yeah it’s a blessing yet it’s tough as hell. So do me a favor cut your wife or spouse or sibling or friend or mom some slack. This role is hard as hell.
Christmas Present Humor
Hysterical and true. Every couple hours the present pile goes down because I organize it but the kitchen must remain clean.
It’s All About Character
I love this. It’s so true. Ever meet someone and feel like you have known them forever. Then people you knew forever feel like you don’t even really know. It happens and it’s ok.
We cross paths with other people to learn. Not just about them but for ourselves. They bring out the good in us a side no one ever could. It’s a beautiful thing. Sometimes the lessons are for us to change. Sometimes it’s for them. Regardless it’s temporary. Things always do come to an end so embrace the time you have with them. It’s a unique experience yet one that sticks with you for a lifetime.
Apply Your Lessons
It’s all about growth. A big time change. Major improvements. Major growth. What we learned in 2019 we will apply in 2020.
December 26th Be Spontaneous
Start your morning and day with a little change. Spontaneous fun. Something different. Trust me it helps you smile all day.
Thursday Vibes
Let’s be real. We do have expectations. But then those change. You have to be able to adapt. You have to be able to accept and move on. It’s not easy nor always fair but I learned one thing this week. I was out with a friend and I learned never change. Be you. Always. Your true self. Those who love you will appreciate it. Those who don’t appreciate it aren’t meant to have you in their life anyway.
We are all going to have disappointments in our life. It’s normal. But what you do with those disappointments is up to you.
Wednesday, December 25, 2019
It’s All About Alignment
I always joke I will meet the love of my life on a Tuesday night at 7:00 pm at the grocery store. Hey you never know. We align with people for a reason. Whether it lasts or not there is a reason the universe connects you to people.
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