But you can still be happy and grateful!
Thursday, January 23, 2020
The Spiritual Journey Is About Honoring Your True Self
What’s your true self? Do you even know.
We get caught up on life that we lose ourselves along the way. We just ride through life. Just another day. No. That’s not life.
Take a step back. Look within at your true self. Your core. I know mine. She’s free. A free spirit. She’s happy and flowing and doesn’t let little life problems get to her. Am I her...I want to be. Noise and situations occur constantly to block her from coming out. It’s my job to work through them so she can come out.
What about yours? What’s blocking your true self?
The spiritual journey is being at peace with yourself. Not blaming others. You control your own life. You have control over how you react to situations.
The best thing to happen to me was to be alone. I am happy in my own company. You have to be. Then maybe one day you can make room for someone else but for now seek peace and work on it. Enjoy your time.
How Life Is Like A Party
I love this. Probably the most accurate thing I have ever read. To those in your life you help you clean the mess- love them. Love them for helping you through some dark times of your life. For encouraging you and bringing you guidance. To help you be your best self.
I have had some shitty moments in my life time. As have you. I am forever grateful for the people who helped me get out of them. They are truly my people. Be grateful for your people. ❤️
Jan 23rd Accept and Release
I want to clarify something. Repeated bad behavior towards you isn’t acceptable. Yeah those in past who didn’t know better who hurt you yeah forgive them. Release them.
Those who continue to repeat control or anger or manipulate you don’t deserve your forgiveness. They do need your prayers to heal their heart for you. Usually means they have pain inside or a broken heart or anger for a reason. I get it. I understand. But after years of trying to be civil with someone it’s not your duty to tolerate it.
You don’t need to tolerate anything that doesn’t make you feel good. Remember that.
So....This is Life...Nothing Stays The Same.
At first I said out loud “Well Damn” reading this but it’s sort of true right. We date the wrong people so we appreciate the right one when they come. We have bad relationships and friendships so we end up cherishing the good ones. It’s all lessons. Life lessons.
“Experiences make you unique!”
I do love that. It is true. I am not who I was. You are not who you were. Our experiences shapes us. Made us tougher and stronger. Love differently. Laugh at things that once made us cry or weak.
I now accept the challenge instead of fear them. If it means I can be happier then bring it. Why not!
Embrace every moment. Embrace every loved one. Every friendship. Every relationship. Nothing stays the same.
Mindlessness...Embrace It
Think of where you are today. You weren’t in the same place last year. Even if things were easier or better or you were happier then you have to embrace the now. You have to realize that nothing stays the same.
You have to know that things can get better. That you can be happy again and try to live in the now. Because the now doesn’t stay the same forever.
Wednesday, January 22, 2020
Break Your Routine & Cycle
We all have been there. When we lived but didn’t live. We just sort of got by. It was a blur. You have to get out of that cycle.
You Got This Girl....
After years of trying to escape a situation that just seems like it just keeps reoccurring can be so draining and discouraging. It’s when you use your brain verse emotions that you can get things done and taken care of.
Never forget who you are. No matter who is trying to bring you down. Never let someone always try to get the best of you. 💗
One Day...Isn’t That What Relationships Are About?
And I will love his little annoying habits too...because that’s what a partnership is. Right? It’s the good. Bad. Ugly. But let’s also draw a line....
It’s about respect. Treating eachother kindly. Bringing out the best in eachother. Having the ability to communicate. Not being aggressive or moody or hurtful or toxic or projecting. It’s to talk through the triggers.
Know the difference.
Tuesday, January 21, 2020
Be Brave Enough
It’s about being brave. Stepping out of your comfort zone.
When was the last time you tried something new even if you feared you would suck at it? If it’s been a while then you’re over due.
Fixing Yourself Is Pretty Amazing
You seek peace within. You know your flaws. Your insecurities. Your fears.
You kindof let them all go. Accept them. It’s not a fast process. You can’t lie about it or fool your own self. You legit have to come to terms with it.
I want to be this earthy free spirit. I feel like this shirt represents it. Not sure why but I dig it.
I am not perfect at all. I have a lot of work to do but hey every step counts. It’s all in the right direction.
Feel Good Song: Before You Go
I heard this for the first time this afternoon. When I did the sun was shining so bright. Really was so peaceful.
Beautiful song.
Break Your Patterns
“You can’t heal in the same environment that made you sick.” The truth about your life.
Love this guy!
It’s Not About Looks
It’s important to pick someone who brings out the best in you not drive you crazy. Someone who makes your life easier and brighter. It’s important to not focus on just looks. It’s finding someone who can be there for you no matter what. Looks fade. Good souls don’t.
Let’s Grow Together...Maybe But Not Yet
When you have a strong tribe you encourage one another to grow. So I have a girlfriend who sent me this.
“RELATIONSHIP TUES: It's a myth that you can't love another until you love yourself. We're able to grow with another as long as we're capable of being open to what's reflected back to us: our defenses, projections, wounds, triggers, our shadow.“
Yeah I am not ready for that I told her. I don’t think it’s NOT possible. To do think it’s possible when you have the right partner. When you’re aligned you can talk it out and work it out and help another grow and handle fears and heal wounds and work out your triggers. BUT I haven’t found that person yet and with my track record I don’t trust myself yet to do this with someone.
Will I one day? Absolutely because see we don’t stop changing and growing. Right?! We always have to learn and we will make mistakes. We aren’t perfect. You need a person who will love you through those things. Who can sit you down and say listen what’s going on with you or why are reacting this way, can we chat it out. Then you work it out and grow together. I never had that. I want that. I had it with friendships. I may have had it short term with a guy but nothing that could have grown into something. I just need to first understand why I chose the people I chose so I learn to not repeat those patterns. That I learn to heal and love myself fully to never allow myself to get into a situation or relationship that isn’t serving or bringing out my highest good.
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