Sunday, May 24, 2020
Let’s Really Look At The Situation
I hate to say this because it was a big painful experience but divorce teaches you a lot. Mostly it teaches you that if you can leave a marriage you really can do anything. You really never settle ever again.
When you’re in a situation and are settling you have to take yourself out of the situation and really look at it dead on. For what it is.
You then walk away when you realize you’re settling. You walk away because you remember how strong you were to walk away from a marriage that didn’t work.
Why the hell would you settle now?!
Why the hell would you settle now?!
You can’t fake it anymore. You can’t be ok with something when deep down it’s eating at you. You have to say this isn’t working for me and walk away. I did it once. I did it twice. I can do it again and that’s ok. Because this is YOUR life. Your fairy tale. There’s no settling. There’s pure happiness. If it’s not you walk away because you’re strong enough to. You walk away because you can’t pretend everything is ok anymore when it’s not.
Saturday, May 23, 2020
Feel Good Song: If The World Was Ending
Beautiful and brings up past thoughts and situations. They say don’t look back. Reality is they are right. You should always look forward in life. Past can’t change. What’s meant for you will be.
What Are Your New Healthy Habits?
I haven’t played tennis in years. Being in quarantine made me bring out some old pastimes. I even started to make some old recipes. It actually can be fun.
I put up a badminton net. I am not normally competitive but I definitely am when it comes to badminton. It’s so weird. I don’t know why. But for years we had a net and played with friends. So taking it out brought out the old competitive me with playing.
I picked up tennis balls the other day at the store and was determined to find my old racquets. Luckily I finally did. Today I snuck out with my oldest and we drove around town looking for tennis courts to play on. Although nets were not up we were still able to play.
What has this quarantine taught you? What old habits have you brought back? What healthy new habits have you started?
Food From Around The Globe
What a great concept. Being able to get some of your favorites delivered from different states and even different countries. Check out this cool list.
Rollercoaster Ride Of Emotions
She’s definitely losing it due to quarantine. I think everyone had been emotionally affected. It’s not even about the restaurants or bars. Even though I miss a good night out of dancing. It’s about missing the routine we had. The hugs. The gym. The human interaction.
I can do without going out. I can’t do without my routine. Even though we all have adapted somewhat to a new norm. It’s still a hard process. My emotions have been wild this week.
Past emotions came to surface. I missed old friendships. I missed my hard core gym workouts. I missed the somewhat chaos. Weird right. Now I am trying to grow my client list. While homeschooling half of the day. It’s just been a lot and not just for me but for everyone.
So next time you’re out of wack and not yourself just blame it on the quarantine. We’re all trying to stay sane and keep it together.
Bar Taco Family Packs
This was an awesome deal. We got together. Social distancing of course and ordered Bar Taco. Margaritas to go and their family pack meals. Where you pick two fillers and select three sides. It was a ton of food. Awesome Price and so fun to sit on a porch and be together.
Friday, May 22, 2020
Thursday, May 21, 2020
See People For Who They Are
Then you can decide how they will fit in your life. Accept then for who they are.
I am grateful for everyone I have in my life. I truly am. They are amazing. They all serve a purpose. They all
fit in my life for a reason.
I have the family who is loving and supportive and we have a great time together. They empower me and support me in any decision I make in life. I have a person in my life who makes me happy and we get to escape realities of life together. I have friends who all are special and unique. They truly are. All in their own way.
I always say to people know your audience. Not everyone will play the same role. Not everyone will
fit the same way. All of that is ok. Not everyone will appreciate the same version of YOU. Yes we all have different versions of ourselves that we give to people and allow people to see. We aren’t the same with everyone.
People aren’t all the same with us.
Science Experiment: Lava Lamp
A friend sent me this. She knows I like doing crafts and fun activities with my girls. This was super easy and really cool.
What you need:
1 cup of olive oil or any cooking oil
1 cup of water
Food coloring
Alka Seltzer Tablets
Add the oil in a cup. Add water. Let it separate. Add food coloring. Break up a tablet and add in. Watch the fun begin. We slowly added more tablets to see how much it would flow. Was really cool.
Mall Parking Fees Donated to Food Bank
The SoNo Collection will be donating parking fees collected to the local Food Banks.
What’s Meant To Be...Will Be
Be patient. I swear I remind myself. Right now with how everything is. The world is unsettling. Our lives changed so much. It’s hard to feel stable and secure. Really about anything. But being patient means big results. It means living one day at a time.
That’s all you can and should do.
Wednesday, May 20, 2020
Alone Time Helps Growth
Want to change? Embrace being alone. Even if it’s an hour a day or if you’re single. Take some time alone. Reflect. Change. Grow.
Tuesday, May 19, 2020
Monday, May 18, 2020
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